In this article, Chris Widener tells the audience 10 things he wish he knew before he went out in the real world. These lessons aren’t the type that are taught by teachers, but they are lessons people come to realize just through living life and growing up. For a lot of people, these negative aspects are sheltered by their parents throughout childhood or they are something a child cannot experience just simply because they are too young. At the end, Widener lets the audience know that although there are certainly negative parts of just living life, but life can still be wonderful depending on whether or not you choose to look at life with a positive attitude. While reading this article, I could definitely agree and connect to some of the…
In the article “The Delusion of Positive Thinking” the author, Barbara Ehrenreich, suggests that although Americans consider positive thinking an embarrassment; in fact, it is firmly established in their national character. American personality is characterized by displaying positive feelings which proliferate in a contagious way. Ehrenreich argues that being positive is definitely better than being sad. Moreover, over the last ten years, happiness is used as a relevant measurement of the economy’s success. Although a recent report shows that Americans are not the top happiest people in the world, they still maintain the happiness in self-image and stereotype.…
Barbara Ehrenreich writes this book as a way to inform readers about the hazardous effects of positive thinking and the way it has warped our perception on how we deal with obstacles in life. The book shows the effects on the business, religious,and especially personal and morbid level when she speaks about her confrontation with breast cancer. She speaks about how she was exposed to the “pink ribbon culture “ and was overwhelmed with crazy optimistic, inspirational phrases,where the word victim is considered taboo. But a merry outlook, she argues,will not cure cancer. This is when she first realized the negative effects of positive thinking.…
The Power of Positive Thinking To begin with, the “Hatchet” and the “Juvenile justice program teaches boys life lessons and accountability”have many things in common. These have more things in common because, both of those people always thought that they will never make it alive or forward with life. This novel and article have the same theme in common, the power of positive thinking. The novel Hatchet written by Gary Paulsen, is where the story contains a realist story with the main character Brain, he is traveling to go see his father.…
These are what he calls the psychological brakes in your life: negative thoughts and images about yourself and about what you can achieve. Guilt, failure, mistakes, errors, and self-doubt will get you nowhere - they are like car breaks that halt your momentum and hinder you from achieving what your full potential can achieve. When you dwell on these, you become a prisoner of your own limiting thoughts. Taking advantage of the power of your subconscious is the key and you can do this by creating positive images about yourself. You start by telling positive affirmations and working on your own habits and behavior.…
At times you might think that everything is miserable. Everything is falling apart on you, but no. It’s not. Everything happened to teach you a lesson and learn from your experiences. When I look back at this past year, I want to realize that not everything was as bad as it seemed in the moment.…
There are a few mindset patterns to deal with in this situation and so a number of approaches could be attempted. In essence the client has a clear case of self-loathing and a need to feel loved by someone else to be happy in herself. There are many feelings of resentment towards her daughters who she believes have made bad choices, leading her to feel like she has to help them out. She believes they should not have turned out the way they have because she has given them everything they could ever have wanted growing up. She on the other hand believes that because of her upbringing she has a reason for being the way she is.…
The year of conquering negativity “The year of conquering negativity.” The article was written by Lesley Alderman in the New York Times. Throughout my entire reading of the article, it is clear that the content focuses on our thoughts as it relates to negative and positive thinking. The author begins the article by illustrating how humans have the tendency of gravitating towards bad thoughts more than positive ones. A keen reader will realize that the author points out some imperative issues that negative thoughts are not wholesome to us.…
This year’s exploration of the pursuit of happiness has taught me many lessons that I will carry throughout my life. The literature that I’ve read this year has molded the way that I see life and the factors that I consider while making decisions. I’ve learned to never The Great Gatsby has taught me to do whatever makes you happy regardless of what others think. Fitzgerald makes Daisy and Tom seem reckless, ignorant, and selfish, when in reality they’re just doing what makes them happy.…
We come to understand the possibilities of the negative outcomes but instead look to the positive outcomes, we became mindful not to forget what brings us joy. For example, over the thanksgiving break I spent a day with my mom. When we went to get lunch, my siblings and dad kept calling her and interrupting our lunch. I was frustrated…
Tensions in The United States are high between different races, as cultural differences are splitting our country. Although, this was a problem that has been around since The United States was founded, it is becoming more apparent today. Violence between different races has risen, because one group thinks they are better than the other. Our current president, Donald Trump has also hinted at the idea that races such as Mexicans, and Muslims are not worthy of being in the United States. This leads me to believe that racism is the biggest problem facing our country today.…
Throughout life, a shift in direction occurs more frequently than one would anticipate. Change in life can either be negative or positive. Among the journey of life, a bad experience may be disguised as a blessing. The negative experience’s can be compared to planting a seed, only to blossom into a beautiful flower. Wisdom comes when one sees the positives through a negative situation.…
How important is mindset in achieving success Why is that some people succeed very easily and others do not reach anywhere close to success? While hard work, persistence and consistency plays a role in us achieving success, it is our mindset that sets us apart. We all have voices inside our heads that sometimes tells us – we cannot do something or the skills required for the task is not in us. This kind of thinking is simply not true and needs to be overcome before we can start our journey towards the goal.…
The Benefits of Optimism During Conflict “The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible” (Winston Churchill). Positivity is a valuable mindset, yet can be acquired by even those in the direst of conditions and those who have the meagerest of resources. Through all the hardships and difficulties in the world, it is those with optimism that persevere, inspire, and overcome the suffering. It is those who forgive and spread their positivity that heal from the wounds caused by others’ cruelty, such as Anne Frank, author of “Anne Frank: Diary Of a Young Girl”, a memoir which details the experiences of a young girl and her family forced into hiding from the Nazis. Another inspiring story comes from “Dear…
What does it take to have optimal human functioning in your life, have positive emotions can be very beneficial to an individual’s mental and physical health? Society accepts people who view things in a positive way versus those who view things in a negative way (Fredrickson, 1998). Courage, wisdom and knowledge can help individuals to lead a more productive and happy life. Journal Activity Summary 1.1 PERMA Assessment: The PERMA assessment is an assessment that is a 23 questionnaire that is evaluating your elements of well-being, like emotions, engagement, relationships, meaning and achievement.…