In a society where many people pride themselves on their honesty, condemning deceit as abhorrent and lies as cowardly, only a small percent glorify the ability to convincingly mislead others. While hiding behind lies is not the optimal approach, when used with a modicum of discretion, it can be the key to survival. In the widely read fictional story, The Scarlet Letter, Hester Prynne’s use of artifice was the support she needed to keep both herself and her daughter, Pearl, alive. While Hester appeared chastised, wearing bland clothing and donning the Scarlet Letter, her thoughts did not reflect the demure persona she had adopted.…
Lying is a sin everyone commits in their lifetime; often on multiple occasions, and is a prevalent theme in today’s society. At times, it is human tendency to lie to avoid trouble, difficult situations, spare others feelings, and enhance social status. In some cases, it seems as though lying is the only option a person has or possibly the best alternative. But a lie has the ability to do more harm than good especially in valuable relationships. In the novel The Girl on the Train, author Paula Hawkins explores the devastating consequences lying has on treasured connections and all areas of a relationship.…
Deborah Tannen, in “Sex, Lies, and Conversation,” an essay published in the 1990 The Washington Post, addressed misunderstandings to curb controversies regarding a chapter from Tannen’s 1986 book That’s Not What I Meant!. Tannen, a teacher at Georgetown University provides the public with scholarly research in the battlefield of communication between the sexes; bringing to light the stereotypical debate to whom is at fault in the negative communicational skills that endanger relationships. Stephanie Ericsson, in “The Ways We Lie,” a cover article from a 1993 issue of the Utne Reader, references life experiences, classifications, and quotes to rationalize the human need to lie. Ericsson, a screenwriter, a copywriter, and a recovering addict uses personal experiences to persuade readers that lying is an art form that cannot be lived without sending the assumption that lying is as vital to life as air is to breathing. Ericsson states “Sure I lie, but it doesn’t hurt anything.”…
A Fable of Witchcraft “He who tells a lie is not sensible how great a task he undertakes; for he must be forced to invent twenty more to maintain that one.” (Alexander Pope). Arthur Miller proves this point very strongly in his dramatic work, The Crucible. One of the main themes in this story is that of lying and how a simple lie can create chaos, more lies and overreactions. In the tragedy, The Crucible, Arthur Miller suggests that when people tell a lie that the situation can quickly spiral out of control and more lies will unfold to build upon the one already told; as a result of her series of lies, Abigail Williams became so uneasy that she left Salem, proving that liars never win.…
Lying is something that all humans do. Whether you lie for good or for bad, it is in our human nature to do so. People lie for many reasons, a lie can be big or small. For example in the play, The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, it shows the consequences of lying. The characters, Elizabeth Proctor, Abigail Williams, Samuel Parris, and Thomas Putnam all lie for different reasons.…
Nation of Lies Why do we lie to others, but expect others to be honest with us? Today in society, lies have embodied the lives of many to the point where it has become a natural part of our lifestyle. Lying has become a natural habit for us, it has become a factor in how we carry out our lives. Whether we may have lied in consideration of how others may feel, or if it was because we did not want to carry out something we were assigned, lying has become so natural to us that we cannot distinguish it from what the truth really is. Lying has become a cultural cancer, as Stephanie Ericsson states in her essay, “The Ways We Lie”, that we have come to the point where we accepted it into our society.…
In one day, a person usually lies plenty of times whether it is a compliment, or they want to escape some kind of punishment. Humans have been telling lies since the beginning of spoken language, and it has always led to problems. Throughout the play,The Crucible by Arthur Miller, deceit and lying are the primary roots of all the problems, and almost all the characters lie at some point to either protect themselves, or to accuse others. John Proctor lies to protect himself from false accusations, and to keep his sins a secret. One of the many lies Proctor tells, starts when he comes home and Elizabeth is cooking dinner for the family.…
Summer Reading In-Class Essay Lies are sometimes a necessary evil, but in other cases, they can cause great pain. In most situations, deception is used as a self-defence mechanism to protect the user and preserve his or her deepest insecurities. Deception can be an armour that shields the user from persecution in the community and secures their social standing. Other times, it will cushion the user’s dignity and hide away the shame that arises.…
In her book, Lying: Moral Choice in Public and Private Life, Sissela Bok discusses moral and ethical principles for deceptive practices. Our discussion will begin with explanations of truthfulness and deception, as well as humans’ thought process when deciding whether to lie. We will continue with a thorough examination of traditional…
In discussions of deceitfulness, one controversial issue has been if it is ever right to lie. Both Anton Chekhov’s “The Lady with the Dog” and Stephen Carter’s “The Insufficiency of Honesty” argue that lying can be rationalized. On the other hand, some people argue that lying is never virtuous as it misleads others. However, I argue that, lying can be justified if it is not used for malicious intent, because it is often used selflessly to protect the feelings of others.…
In the ways we lie, Ericsson discusses roughly ten lies, but there are much more that can be added to this list. She describes the main ones we continuously use on a regular basis and the reasons for lying. The white lie, Facades, Ignoring the plain facts, Deflecting, Omission, Stereotypes & Clichés, Groupthink, Out & out lies, Dismissal, and Delusion. When reading this essay, you would be surprised at the number of lies there are. For one there are way too many, but you will come to realize that some are not as bad as they sound being categorized by a lie.…
A person once said ´´ the truth does not cost a person anything, but a lie costs a person everything ´´. The aim of the study is to take closer look at how the kinds of lies and sex differences in lying demonstrated in the scientific article are related with Pamela Myer´s ted talk. Moreover, it will ta In the scienitefic article Lying in Evreyday life written by Depaulo (1996) showed participants that took part of a study.…
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C.E. Ayers once said, “A little inaccuracy saves a world of explanation.” Ayers brings up an interesting point about telling the truth. There are some occasions on which it is better to lie, such as when it saves lives, when it is kinder, and when it would cause unnecessary harm. One occasion when it is appropriate to lie is when it saves lives. History is brimming with examples of lies saving lives.…
D.H. Lawrence writes to expose the malicious side of Hester Prynne in his critical essay, “On The Scarlet Letter”. With his unique style of writing, Lawrence criticizes the way Hawthorne victimizes Hester, creating the facade that is her character. To convey his reasoning, he provides context and analysis of her disgraceful character throughout the novel. Lawrence uses sarcastic tone, biblical allusions, and choppy and repetitive syntax to prove that Hester Prynne is not a heroine in The Scarlet Letter.…