Have you ever thought of putting spyware on your child’s computer? In the article ‘‘Undercover Parent’’, Harlan Coben discusses how most parents won’t even consider putting spyware on their child’s computer. From my point of view parents should put spyware on their child’s computer. Some parents will say that it’s better to use parental blocks that deny access to risky sites. For example, if your child looked up porn, your child would not have access to that website.…
Harlan Coben wrote “Undercover Parent”. Spyware is you having the ability to log every keystroke your child makes and thus a good portion of his/her private world. How would you feel if your teen was being stalked by a pedifile? The internet can be a dangerous place. It can be dangerous because teens are stalked by strangers on the internet.…
In his essay “Undercover Parent,” Harlan Coben supports the idea of using spyware on teenager’s electronics by parents. Using this spyware you have the ability to “log every keystroke your child makes” (2) and invading their private space. While this idea is valid because most parents who do this are loving and only want to protect their children from harm, by placing this spyware on a teen’s electronics you are not only evading their privacy but also their trust. This is because more than likely parents are doing this behind the child’s back, which could ultimately lead to distrust and resentment due to the lack of trust in the teen to be able to make their own decisions. However, spyware on computers would, in fact, help to prevent situations…
In the article or Op-Ed "The Undercover Parent" (2008), Harlan Coben asserts that parents should install spyware on their children’s computer to keep them monitored from everything they are doing online and to protect them from harmful people and websites. The article supports this claim by using counterarguments to take the other side of the idea and then later rebutting them with examples supporting it back to his argument. Coben wants parents to install spyware for their children to keep them safe from the harm and dangers of the internet. The author tries to convince parents that it is a great and easy tool that will keep their children safe and that they should consider talking to their children first about it before installing it. The…
Harlan Coben posted an online news editorial, titled “The Undercover Parent” (16 March 2008) that suggests to parents that they should have conversations about their teens, and let them know spyware, on their computer, is a possibility. The author was first told about spyware by his friends at a dinner; since then, he has explored the thought of placing spyware on children’s computers. Coben’s purpose was to persuade parents to place spyware on their children’s, or to at least think about it, to monitor their children’s internet usage. The intended audience of this article is parents with children/teens who go on or use the internet.…
Harlan Coben, in the article “The Undercover Parent” (2008), explains how parents should install spyware on their children’s devices to monitor them and keep them safe from the dangers of the Internet. Coben supports his claim by first comparing first thoughts of spyware to Dick Cheney sitting in a dark room, looking suspicious and shady and then he provides scenarios of things that have happened to those kids who were not being monitored. The author’s purpose is to inform parents of the dangers of the internet and the benefits of monitoring their kids in order to try and convince them to install spyware and keep their children safe. Coben writes in an urgent tone for guardians to increase the seeming need to watch their child’s actions on the internet.…
Coben says you should just use spyware to monitor your teens activities instead of going through their personal life because the parent doesn’t need to know about who they like.…
Although deciding if you trust your child or not may seem trivial, it is in fact crucial in terms of today’s concerns over teenagers’ use of the internet. If you were a parent with teenage children, would you use spyware to monitor your child’s internet use? This is what many parents have chosen to do in order to watch what their children are doing on the internet. Many parents use it to protect their children from things like cyberbullying and pedophiles, while others use it to spy on them to find good gossip or to be overly involved in their children’s lives. The differences between the responsibly protective parent and the irresponsibly nosy parent are discussed in “The Undercover Parent” an article by Harlan Coben, and in this essay as well.…
In the New York Times’ article called “The Undercover Parent” by Harlan Coben,discusses the debate if parents should monitor their children and their internet use. In today’s cyber world, there’s Facebook, Tumblr, chatrooms, etc. that requires people to expose personal information about themselves. Once someone post a picture or reveals something about them, others around the world can see it. The article introduces readers to a new monitoring software called Spyware, that allows adults to see what their children are posting online.…
Coban identifies both the positive and negative options of how spyware can be used to watch over teenagers and their internet activity. He encourages families and parents who…
First and foremost, a parent’s number one goal is to be one hundred percent sure that their kids are secure and blissful. Therefore, if spyware ever becomes necessary to fulfill this desire, then it must occur because it is the parent’s duty to be aware of their children’s habits. Coben explains that using spyware is a “scary, but a good idea” (1) as he considers spyware as a system to help parents monitor their kids and be assured of their safety. At first, parents may suppose that using the software is deceiving and that it should never even be considered. But, if they start to ponder on it, then they will understand its importance and effectiveness.…
Parents are usually overprotective with their kids, of course, for there own good, but, is it right to spy on them. Harlan Coben a writer from New York Times wrote an article titled “The Undercover Parent” in which he gives his opinion about spyware, for him is something good and necessary to keep your kids safe. I agree with his since the safety of my kids, if I had one, would be the priority for me. One of Coben’s arguments is if we should or should not trust our kids. As he said in his article, some parents “say you should simply trust your child”.…
Don’t Be A Creep Why would you want to spy on your kids? In the article Undercover parent, Coben argues that spying on your kids is a good and bad idea. I think parents should not spy on their kids. One reason parents should not spy on kids is because kids have a right to privacy.…
you’re listening for dangerous chatter.” Coben is basically saying that is parental responsibility to be the “safety net” for you child. Many parents shy away from spyware, but in all honesty its only there for a good purpose. I think if these kids internet use was monitored, there would be a different outcome of these stories. In addition, I think that installing spyware is a very foolproof way to protect your…
Harlan Coben’s OpEd piece “The Undercover Parent” is a powerful piece written to convince parents that the benefits of spyware greatly outweigh the invasion of privacy. Throughout his essay, he maintains a friendly, parent-to-parent tone that one can compare to a conversation over coffee. As a college student without children, I found it difficult to understand the importance of monitoring children’s internet activities. However, when I forced myself to take on the perspective of a parent, I found Coben’s argument to be far more compelling, and found myself understanding the importance of spyware on computers that children have access to. In his article, Coben assumes that readers will have a negative response to the concept of spyware, but he uses his argument effectively to persuade the reader that spyware is not only harmless, but an asset in the toolbox of good parents.…