Disadvantages Of Tiger Parenting

Raising children can prove to be an arduous task not only because of the amount of time, effort, and dedication it takes but also because of the various methods that can be used to create the “perfect” child. Some parents prefer to let their children run free whereas others prefer to hover over their children. One of the most notable parenting styles is the tiger parenting style, which is the strictest method. Tiger parents typically restrict their children from partaking in certain activities, control what they do on a daily basis, and keep track of how their children are doing. While this method is a great way of ensuring the children’s success in life, it restrains the children from growing and understanding other core values. The tiger parenting style is the least beneficial method of child-rearing because it …show more content…
Tiger parenting places a strain on the relationship between children and parents. Because of the strict style of parenting, children often feel extremely inferior to their parents. As soon as the child does something wrong, they are immediately scolded. For example, in Amy Chua’s article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior,” Chua wrote about attempting to teach her daughter, Louise, to play a song on the piano. Louise struggled for a while to learn the song and play it on the piano. Throughout the process, her mother was nearby yelling, criticizing, and threatening Louise until she eventually played the song right. According to Chua, a child only receives praise once they excel at something, which “builds confidence and makes the once not-fun activity fun.” While this method may seem to work, it