The Theme Of True Love In Sue Monk Kidd's The Secret Life Of Bees

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How far would you go to find real love? “I want to make her love me so she can keep me forever” (Kidd 94) in The Secret Life of Bees, the reader accompanies Lily on her road to love. With the help of all of the people she encountered in Tiburon, Lily learns to forgive her ruthless father and also learns what if feels like to be apart of a real family. Sue focuses on women who have to go on a journey to remove themselves from bad environments with males to find their true self. That same form of writing is portrayed through Lily’s life story and journey to Tiburon. Sue Monk Kidd shows the reader just how important a real love can impact a life through Lily’s road to recovery in The Secret Life of Bees.

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