The Theme Of Lies When To And When Is It Ok To Lie

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When to and when not to lie

Are you conflicted about lying? Many people are, so in this essay we will use evidence to clarify. Is lying always, sometimes, or never ok? The point of this paper is to say that it is sometimes ok to tell a lie.

When is it ok to lie? In article one, Cohen stated that lies to protect someone or their feelings are ok. If you think that a friends hair is absolutely horrid, you wouldn’t tell them that, unless they had time to change it. However, if you are not able to make changes, you would tell them that they looked amazing. You would tell them that they look fantastic. Lorreta Ragsdell the author of article four says that “Teens lie on an as needed basis.” It is my belief, that she meant we lie when we need to,

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