What Are The Obstacles In My Life

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Throughout my life I've encountered a lot of obstacles and hardships. However I've learned to deal with them and in turn, I have become a better person. I was born and raised in Wichita, a city more southern than northern in the state of Kansas. Life was good for awhile, I was just a young kid with big dreams in a broken city. I saw all the homeless people, drug addicts, drug dealers, Prostitutes, etc. but didnt think nothing of it. Of course I was young, I thought abuse was normal, drugs were normal and everything in between was just, normal. It never occurred to me that my life wasn’t as good as it gets, I was content with my life. Looking back now though i see the struggle, the pain all around me, the constant need for money to get stuff necessary for survival. Most of all, i remember being abused by my father. I remember watching him hit my mom and push her down stairs, I remember her priceless emotions, the smile she wanted to show her son to hide the brutality of the cruel reality we lived in. I remember praying for a cure to my father's anger so that we could stay a family, the cure never came. They later divorced . …show more content…
I was forced to lead myself into the right direction, in doing this I decided to be better, to be smarter, and to take all my friends with me. Growing up Loyalty was key, all I had was my friends and vice versa. In a way we were each others backbone. When one was down we were all there to help out. Because of them life was better but even they couldn't help me through what i was about to

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