My Suffering Is My Happiness Analysis

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Your suffering is my suffering.
Your happiness is my happiness.
I would always regard your emotions, your needs, and your vulnerabilities as I regard my own.
I am unskillful, and I apologize If I cause you suffering.
Love is devoid of suffering; our unskillfulness and egoist practices is what causes another to suffer.
I would never want for you to feel abandon. I am present and mindful of you.
You mean everything to me.

My suffering. Unskillfulness. Shortcomings. The abusive behavior and language.
In your own words, you summarized what was the origin of my emotions of unsafety, and unlove. I felt reduced to merely an erotic object. In the time that I provided space for you to be with self, you deconstructed what we constructed together. You remained dishonest about an experience that we shared together.

You are only responsible for what is that you decide to share and
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In this that you have shared and in what you have withhold. In the progression of your behavior, I feel degraded, devoid of sentient qualities. I felt unlovable. I felt as if there is in me what entices in you and others the desire to claim, use and abuse me.
Empty, your words of love, respect and friendship feel, as they are conflicting with your behavior.
An apology is concomitant of change behavior and compassionate and loving acts.
You are attached to everything that makes you unhappy as I once was, that is, your inability to commune with self, your habitual patterns and wrong perceptions and misunderstandings. The walls that I was once able to enter. The fear that another may learn too much of you or that you may have shared too much.

There is nothing of you that would you make you unlovable to me.
I am grateful for you and to you, for I have learned to be more compassionate and loving by every experience that I lived in your name.

I value that in every time that I have reach out and in the times where you did, you shared with me your

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