I have studied The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness, written by Florence Hartley, multiple times. Having memorized this “bible” front and back, a full 350 pages, I am inordinately educated on the importance of a lady's demeanor. A quote from the book that I recall frequently is, “Avoid affectation, it is the sure test of a deceitful, vulgar mind. The best cure is to try to have those virtues which you would affect, and they will appear naturally.” Being honorable and genuine are amongst my greatest attributes and this would bestow upon your college a scholar who is as intelligent as truthful. My desire to learn about etiquette spurred from my sister, Lydia's, lack of it. When I observed her repulsive behavior, I coveted a need to be the optimal lady in each occurrence. Although her behavior had been horrendous, my other sisters have instructed me and are fine role models. I recently read Cathy Lambs, Henry’s Sisters and the following quote describes our relationship, ¨Sisters are the worst. And they are the best. A sister can be awful and complicated and loving and protective and petty and competitive and when you die she is the person you want beside you holding your hand. Somebody’s gotta organize the pot luck after the service and you know your husband’s not gonna be up to the job.” Although my eldest sisters are enthralled in the foolishness of dancing, men, balls and love,
I have studied The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness, written by Florence Hartley, multiple times. Having memorized this “bible” front and back, a full 350 pages, I am inordinately educated on the importance of a lady's demeanor. A quote from the book that I recall frequently is, “Avoid affectation, it is the sure test of a deceitful, vulgar mind. The best cure is to try to have those virtues which you would affect, and they will appear naturally.” Being honorable and genuine are amongst my greatest attributes and this would bestow upon your college a scholar who is as intelligent as truthful. My desire to learn about etiquette spurred from my sister, Lydia's, lack of it. When I observed her repulsive behavior, I coveted a need to be the optimal lady in each occurrence. Although her behavior had been horrendous, my other sisters have instructed me and are fine role models. I recently read Cathy Lambs, Henry’s Sisters and the following quote describes our relationship, ¨Sisters are the worst. And they are the best. A sister can be awful and complicated and loving and protective and petty and competitive and when you die she is the person you want beside you holding your hand. Somebody’s gotta organize the pot luck after the service and you know your husband’s not gonna be up to the job.” Although my eldest sisters are enthralled in the foolishness of dancing, men, balls and love,