The greatest problem facing health care is domestic violence. Over the years more attention has been provided on defining domestic violence and its causes. Still women and men are struggling with leaving their partners. Women have been finding it easier than men to get resources yet the number still remains high. States have been working on ways to control the batters but victims find themselves at more risk when they leave the batter's.…
After reading "violence in intimate relationships: a feminist perspective" there are some harsh realities that some women do not want to face when they are or may be in a abusive relationship. Women face being labeled as a "battered woman" someone who has lost their morals or values to even stay with a male who is abusive towards them. I believe it is hard for women to leave a abusive relationship because they are scared especially if the abuse has been going on for years. I've seen a lot of movies based on women being abused by their significant other and from those movies i got that the woman has to at some point build this determination to leave that abusive relationship. Furthermore the woman has to feel like she has someone to turn to…
The feminization of poverty refers to the rate at which women are more likely to be in poverty than men due to various factors such as wage disparities, sexism in the workplace, intimate partner violence, and the prevalence of female-headed single parent families. In Barbara Ehrenreich’s Nickel and Dimed, Ehrenreich witnessed the hardships that her working-poor coworkers went through everyday. Ehrenreich noticed that gender-specific work had lower wages than men’s work and that sexism in the workplace put women at the mercy of their bosses whim and to fear possible retaliation if they reported bad behavior. Intimate partner violence is a method for men to control the social and economic well beings of their partners and to steer them toward…
As "Murder as Self-Help" by Dr.Peterson mentions, there is a certain pocket within society that allows abuse to continue as long as it is not public, and does not bother/hinder the lives of the people around it; she cites that it is an all too common 'blind spot' of the criminal justice system wherein both the abuser and the abused are ignored and no intervention is made, therefore making it necessary for the victim (or in some cases, the offender) to take matters into their own hands in search of change. As seen in lectures, 1/3 of all homicides are categorized as confrontational homicide, wherein the discussion scenario falls - victims must often 'remove' or alleviate their abusive situation themselves, as the law turns a blind eye on them.…
WHY DO INDIVIDUALS STAY IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS? Fear · Fear of further abuse to oneself as well as fear for the children who may already be part of the abusive pattern. · Feelings of guilt for somehow being responsible for the batterer’s unhappiness and anger. · The individual may feel they somehow provoked them or is inadequate as a spouse and parent. · Many abused individuals watched their mothers tolerate abuse and may have grown up with an overwhelming sense of shame.…
I am Not Your Victim In the story I am Not Your Victim by Beth Sipe the readers are able to read first hand the experiences that Beth went through while in this abusive relationship. There are many factors as to why Beth stood in the relationship and lack of support from outsiders and people who are supposed to be trusted. On more than one occasion when Beth tried calling the police they weren’t very helpful.…
Introduction Domestic violence is everywhere around us and for some of us it is not something new. It comes in many forms physical, emotional, and psychological. The abuse is very real and when it starts we are the last to notice it. Nothing is worse then being the person on the outside looking in watching mothers, sisters, and friends go through it without being able to do anything is hard.…
Intimate partner violence is one of the worse crimes that happen in society. From domestic violence to sexual assault, intimate partner violence has caused severe pain and problems in our society. Whether it be, male on female, female on male, male on male, or female on female, violence does not discriminate who it effects. To learn more about this societal problem that is intimate partner violence it must be asked the, what it is, who it effects, and why it happens. That is what the reason for this paper is for.…
The victim of abuse can be the one and only person to break the cycle. They must decide enough is enough and only then will change…
L (2013), Why abused women stay in bad relationships; Retrieved August 16, 2014, from http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/10/opinion/steiner-domestic-violence This source documents research on females whom stayed in an abusive relationship fearing of retaliation or in a hope of changing the abusing partner. The research shows the complications to the situations, particularly how a woman who’s being abused still tries to maintain a positive image to the world about their relationship. Some of the women who attempted leaving the relationship ended up with no societal support, or worse yet, died. This article gains credibility from its’ author Leslie Steiner.…
The movie Daddy’s Little Girls is a movie about Monty who is a hardworking father that has three girls and their mother and her boyfriend both do drugs and are physically abusive to the three girls. The father of three is a mechanic at a local shop that he one day hopes to buy and he battles to gain custody of his girls. In the introduction of her book Michelle Kaminsky mentions about how many domestic abuse violence victims don’t come out and report the abuse to authorities for a variety of different reasons. One of the main reasons is because victims are terrified of what the offender may do to them and/or their families if they did speak up about the abuse or illegal activity.…
What is domestic abuse? As defined by the dictionary it is acts of violence or abuse against a person living in one's household, especially a member of one's immediate family. This is the main theme in the short story I have recently read called “The day it Happened.” When I first read the short story, “The Day it Happened” my first thoughts were of some drama you would see on television a since the story is written from the perspective of a young girl and it started off with her describing her hair washing routine. The author certainly gave it the soap opera type of feel with the way she described the characters.…
Domestic abuse describes the act of a person who uses violence or manipulation to control someone else or to get what they want. The abuser is usually skilled in manipulation and deception, and uses things such as guilt, shame, intimidation, or fear to keep control over their partner. Some are even capable of making their victim think that there is nothing wrong, as if their reason for the way they acted was simply an outburst of rage and will never happen again. There are cases where victims are not even aware that what they are going through is abuse, therefore, do not try to seek help. Others can be completely aware, but because of different circumstances, they are unable to reach out.…
Beverly Gooden once said, “If I had the ability to go back in time and change a day in my life I would change the day my significant other laid his hands on me.” Beverly Gooden endured a great deal of abuse during the course of this relationship and more often than not, she would ask herself why she stayed and why was it so hard for her to leave. It is easy for people to say to a person that is a domestic violence relationship “just leave” however, those people cannot fathom the type of strong hold an abuser has over the person they are abusing. Just leave is not as easy a people make it sound.…
Additionally, domestic violence happens very often and most of people consider it—not as a crime—but a norm of marriage. And the reasons for it? The reporters of DHS Program give us some instances: disrespecting in-laws, neglecting the house or children, arguing with husband, going out without husband’s consent, etc. and even not cooking properly—putting less or more salt—is enough to be beaten (Hindin, Kishor, and Ansara, 27). Similarly to the case of rape victims, these women cannot run to anyone for help for many reasons. Some do not want to disclose what they consider as the stigma of their marriage, the nasty things that going on in their family; others choose to keep silent after being denied for help from their relatives and friends.…