The children come time after time seeking an emotional connection with their parents, but the parents appear to be so caught up in their own tragedy they have forgotten that the children are going through misery of their own. No one seeks out the children to ask how they are feeling or what can be done to help them have less grief and worry. The children handle their neglect and bottled up emotions by comforting or hurting each other. Authors Kathleen, McCue and…
Kent Harufs Plainsong is an inspiring novel centered around seven characters and their battles with isolation and hopelessness. Through different accounts in each chapter, you hear of seven people’s day to day struggles and the effects it has on their lives. One character who really embodied the theme of the book, was Victoria Roubideaux, or Vicky for short. Vicky, a pregnant 17-year-old girl, wasn’t able to hide the fact that she was pregnant, and was thrown out of her house by her mom. To make things worse, the father of her baby abandoned her as well.…
This essay will look at Tamika Johnson who is a family preservation worker at a local county human services department. She is currently working with a family of people named the Thomas family. The family wants help dealing with Shane who is fourteen years old who is difficult to handle and has acting out behaviors who has also been truant from school as well as home. Thomas has a sister named Melissa who is fifteen years old. The family has a history of yelling and screaming at each other which sometimes becomes physical.…
“The Boy Who Was Raised As a Dog” by Dr. Bruce D. Perry is an extraordinary book following many cases of child trauma that Dr. Perry has worked on. In each of its 10 chapters it describes one child who experienced trauma and how it affected them and Dr. Perry tries to find out why they turned out the way they did. It is really interesting as he isn’t trying to prove or disprove anything, he just is figuring out how experiences when you are young can affect you later on. Even though most people don’t experience things like this it helps him to better understand the human mind and human reaction to trauma.…
Introduction In 1948, Richard Kuklinski, at the age 13, was ambushed and beaten by Charley Lane, the leader of a small gang of teenagers in the neighbourhood, popularly known as "The Project Boys." He had been bullied for some time. After a particularly bad beating young Richard sought revenge, by attacking Charley Lane with a thick wooden rod ultimately beating him to death. Although he denied wanting to kill Lane, the bully did not wake up.…
Family is a common factor, visibly prominent in people's lives. To many, the definition of family varies. “Families differ in terms of economic, cultural, social, and many other facets, but what every family has in common is that the people who call it a family are making clear that those people are important to them in some way.” Katherena Vermette’s The Break revolves on a community of families whose lives intertwined with one another.…
Jeannette faces many hardships during her life through resiliency because the idea of a perfect family was instilled into her mind at such young age. As a young girl,…
In her novel, Trauma and Recovery, Judith Herman discusses the concept of Complex Trauma Disorder and its implications. Intolerant of the currently defined diagnosis for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), she decides to rename it. Herman believes that the existing definition for PTSD is inaccurate, or as she asserts “does not fit accurately enough” (119). The present criteria for this diagnosis results from those who have survived “circumscribed” traumatic events, which includes rape, disaster, and combat. These are simply archetypes.…
Speak is a coming-of-age novel about 14-year-old Melinda Sordino as she struggles with the weight of her pain as a victim of rape. Melinda is a fictional character; yet, for thousands of other girls in the world, her experiences are a vivid reality. Although I have not shared her experience, as long as there is someone that is able to relate to Melinda, I believe that Speak is a realistic representation of adolescent experience. Rape crimes are far more common than people believe it to be. According to the survey done by the National Institute of Justice, one in six American women have been the victim of an attempted or completed rape .…
Many families were struck by this tragedy to hear that their loved one wasn’t returning home from school, they wish it was all a dream; which had turned into a nightmare. Parents were called in one by one to pick up the surviving kids. “It was agony” said the woman who was mourning the loss of her friend’s child. “We stood in the cold from about ten thirty to twelve thirty” says the lady who found out that her daughter wasn’t hurt during this time of tragedy (Pederson and Gibb). Many parents weren’t as lucky as Mrs. Beverly Bernie, whose child missed the whole…
Precious’s individual resilience was surprisingly strong given her severe and abysmal circumstances. Despite her generally negative circumstances Precious is an example of elasticity and significance of empowerment. Even though Precious was illiterate and pregnant with a second child she never stopped believing that there may be better things to come. “The other day, I cried. But you know what?…
During Captivity Abduction Being abducted is a key event where Kampusch focuses on the emotions and thoughts she experienced when she first saw a man standing next to a van on her way to school, on the morning she was captured. She recounts how she experienced a fear sensation when she saw the van, inducing a physiological reaction within her body, as well as a strong desire to cross the street. She summarises how thoughts of abduction and child molestation ran through her head. Specifically, growing up Kampusch describes how she would watch stories on the news about child abduction, molestation cases, rapes, murder of young girls and their parents’ pleas for them to return home.…
For the psychodynamic theory, we talked about how we learn from our parents and that those abused can in some cases become the abusers. The most important topic we discuss about this book is the resiliency that Julie shows throughout her life. She used school and a positive personality to get through each day of her childhood. She believed in herself enough to become the strong beautiful person that she is today.…
The complexity of trauma can bring a wide range of emotional, guilty, shame, physical health and mental development. Our attachment starts from parents, grandparents or other authority figures that we deem important growing up (NCTSN, 2018). However, it’s equally important during these early stages of development is when children learn to trust others, regulate their emotions, and interact with the world; they develop a sense of the world as safe or unsafe, and come to understand their own value as individuals (NCTSN, 2018). When those relationships are unstable or unpredictable, children learn that they cannot rely on others to help them (NCTSN, 2018). Our ability to develop healthy, supportive relationships with friends and…
Model of Family Therapy The Experiential Family Therapy model is a theory that was developed by the practitioners of Carl, Whitaker, Walter Kempler and Virginia Satir. With the Experiential Family Therapy Model, the goal of the therapist is to catalyze the natural drive of the family to reach growth and the full potential of the individual members of the family. Still, the individual practitioners allowed their personality to be instrumental in the success of their unique forms of Experimental Family Therapy, although their focus and goals were similar (Goldberg, 2013). Because of the importance of the individual personality in the success of a model, Whitaker’s Symbolic-Experiential Family Therapy (S-EFT) was selected and will be argued for…