Is It Better To Have Traditional Friendships?

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Technology has been rapidly been changing the world around us. The Internet and social media is a huge aspect of today’s society and plays a huge role in developing adolescents. The role of having friends online can really portray who you are. Online friends are always there for you to give their support, advice, and boost your confidence.
Having many friends as a supporting system can benefit you whenever you are feeling down and have no one to talk too. Some people are more willing to share their personal stories and emotions with others who don’t actually know them on a deeper level. For example, when people go to therapy they are more prone to tell their therapist private things that their own friends do not know. This is because you are more comfortable talking to someone who doesn’t actually know the person whom you are talking about. People can also learn interpersonal skills online and through the media but I do believe that interpersonal skills are easier contained when taught by face. Many people have their
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There are a lot of people that I know and I do have a lot of online friends, but I doubt any of them actually care for me as much as my best face to face friends. Having conventional friendships are so much better to have in the long run because they get to experience who you actually are. Anything online could just be a false advertisement of yourself; but, when you have a true best friend who knows everything about you face to face – that’s just way better than having many online friends. To summarize, online friends are good to have but I don’t believe it should be something that consumes over your life. Having many online friends can ruin real face-to-face interactions with others and I just believe that it’s better to have a couple real friends than a thousand fake

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