What Is Bullying And How Would You Act?

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Imagine yourself standing in a school yard. Around you the kids are laughing and playing lively games. Well, almost all the kids. A little farther away, you see a lonely boy. He doesn’t seem to be happy. Around him another group of kids are standing. They are laughing and making fun of him. They are using an aggressive body language. The little boy gets scared. But no one seems to see what’s going on. Adults nearby ignore the situation. It is quite obvious that this is bullying and that no one care. But why is nobody caring? How would you act?(Rhetorical questions)

On February 2013 this little boy took his on life after years of bullying. His parents found him dead in his room. He didn't get any help and was not strong enough to stand up
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Suicide, self harm and self hate is just some of them. Because in the world we live in today, kids and young people are afraid of going to school. The fact that many people do not go to school or quit school is not just a matter of sheer laziness. It can also be a result of bullying. It exist people that are strong enough to handle the bullying, and also say that it made them stronger. But that’s not everybody. Many people lose their confidence, and don’t continue to educate themselves when they previously have been bullied. The people that quit high school or choose not to go to high school leads to a lot of consequences for the …show more content…
A world where people are equal and just see each other as people with the same feelings. And instead of showing hate and anger show love and affection. But I believe that we can make it better, that you as an individual can make it better. Everyone can do something regardless of age. I want to urge people to really dare. I understand that it may be hard, maybe you are afraid. Also I urge especially schools to talk more about this issue.

The people that say something. The people that don’t ignore the problem. Is the people that are the big heroes. If efforts can be made to prevent a person from being bullied, much suffering has been saved. Also I want all bulliers to think. Is it really worth it?

You should treat other people the same way you want to be treated. That’s a part of my upbringing and that is something I will bare with me. For the rest of my life. Stop bullying today. Bullying leaves scars on the victim's body that never goes away. Together we are stronger, let’s do it

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