individuals, varying across age and gender. (Siriwardhana, 2014) Clients who struggle with their life management has to rely on survival instincts in order to establish and maintain their quality of life. In order to maintain a reasonable quality of life the client must be willing to grow. The resilience approach focuses on the dynamic interplay between periods of gradual and sudden change and how to adapt to and shape change. (Folke, 2015) A counselor must aid the client in discovering something worth fighting which in turn be the catalyst to carry them through their difficult moments. Some clients find various reasons \like the love for family, finishing school or moving into their own place as instruments of motivation to strengthen
