I would think that there would be no need to defend the relationship if the feelings were not something different from friendship. I find it to be very possible that Charlotte Perkins Gilman, along with other women like Susan B. Anthony and Frances Willard, were likely attracted to women in a way that was too intense to be considered purely friendship. I do accept, however, that intense friendships between women did exist. From Davis’ description of this relationship between Charlotte and Martha, I am skeptical that it was only a …show more content…
This first and unhappy marriage ruined Charlotte’s views on the traditional model of marriage – which she coined as “the sexuo-economic relation” – in which the husband worked and the woman stayed at home, cooked, cleaned, and bore and raised children (210). In her own personal experiences, Charlotte found this model of marriage to be damaging to women, and her personality conducive to action allowed her to write a book about how to amend this model of marriage for herself and for other women who feel the same way she does. Women and Economics hailed economic independence and a combination of career and marriage as the solution to the problems, especially the emotional and mental problems, that women of the time faced. Suffrage leaders, like Carrie Chapman Catt, loved the book and lauded it as a book that was “utterly revolutionizing the attitude of mind in the entire country, indeed of other countries, as to woman’s place”