He prides himself on the fact that he is nothing like her when, in fact, he may be more like her than he realizes. Through Julian’s relationship with his mother, O’Connor uses irony, character study, and setting to show that parents may have a greater influence on their children’s development than they realize. O’Connor uses irony as an instrument to probe into the similarities between Julian and his mother. A closer examination of the story reveals he possesses many of his mother’s traits. Julian and his mother are underachievers; she appears content living in a dilapidating neighborhood while he is of the mind that there is no future for him (573).…
Even though his parents were not loving in the matter he needed and desired, he still found comfort and even surrogacy in Carine. She states that they learned to count on one another (Krakauer 107) and he states in a letter to her that she is was the only person that could possibly understand him (Krakauer 129). However, even Carine’s relationship could not sustain him enough to stay or even contact her when he disappeared. The dysfunctional background that Chris grew up with due to his parents is why he turned out the way he did, but if he looked closer at what type of people really cared about him then maybe he could have seen that they could have compensated for his parents’ lack of real love. Instead, he turns to a life of…
Even then, John does not treat the narrator with the respect she deserves as his wife and a human being with emotions. “John laughs at me, of course, but one expects that in marriage”(Gilman 1). In a normal, healthy husband-wife complex, spouses listen to each other with an open mind. Between the narrator and Jennie, John’s sister, Jennie treats her as a child. Jennie is their housekeeper and she takes care of the baby.…
Near the end of her life, Cathy finally meets her son Cal, but is disgusted to discover the extent of his goodness. She feels that, as his mother, she has the right to control him, “for as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman” (Corinthians 11:12). Cathy never respected Adam, and it destroyed her to find that he had more influence over their sons than she ever could. She hopes to affect Cal’s mentality and make him believe he can “excuse” himself from fighting sin “because of [his] ancestry” (449). Her desire to influence her son, even without being present in his life, outlines how delusional jealousy made her.…
Ashley is expected to have common sense along with book sense. Eric is expected to do more of physical work. No one understands “...why mothers are so often told to go against their instincts with their boys, to tell a crying child “man up” or “shake it off”, or to let a hurting teenager suffer in silence and “work it out on his own” (NYT Takes On). Mothers are “taught” to expect their boys to be independent than their girls. A mother’s son might feel as though it’s unfair to him, but he doesn’t understand that he actually has it easy compared to a girl and parents.Boys would feel like they have it harder with their parents because “In short, girls tend to get more of their parents’ affection, attention and protection while boys tend to be taught to not need some and to “man up”” (NYT Takes On).…
To Edna, her marriage was just a societal requirement to meet; she was fond of Léonce, but she resented the idea of marriage. Although Edna did love her children, she was not as motherly as society would like her to be. Unlike other children, if one of Edna’s children were to hurt himself while playing, he wouldn’t “rush crying to his mother’s arms for comfort” (18); instead, he would “pick himself up, wipe the water out of his eyes and the sand out of his mouth, and go on playing” (18). When her husband insisted that Raoul had a fever, she argued that he didn’t, and then didn’t immediately get out of bed to…
Clearly she views his judgment in higher respects than her own even though her health is in question. According to her husband, “the worst thing [she] can do is think about [her] condition.” The fact that John does not allow her to have a say regarding her own condition and treatment demonstrates the superiority with which he carries his intellect due to his social standing. He not only dismisses her ideas because his position as a physician gives him the authority to override her solutions, but because he does not view her on his same level. In addition, John transitions from treating his wife as a patient, though unprofessionally, to treating her like a child he does not believe capable of taking proper care of herself. Though…
She explains that women do not have a sense of leadership or solidarity to be able to compete with “The One” and are contempt with being in second place to men. Since John identifies himself as being more intelligent and rational, he thinks he knows more than his wife about her own conditions, which exemplifies why she never defends herself against him. Gilman states “…but really you are better, dear, whether you can see it or not. I am a doctor, dear, and I know. You are gaining flesh and color, your appetite is better, I feel really much easier about you” (Gilman 666).…
Marlow 's aunt is a very warm-hearted woman, she treats Marlow like her own son, and does her best to comfort and help Marlow. She is motivated by the love to Marlow and expects nothing in return. When Marlow asks for help to his friend if anyone who can introduce him to the trade company, but no one could help him. When Marlow’s aunt knows that, she decides to help his nephew and she is determined to do anything that get Marlow appointed to be the skipper. However, Marlow doesn’t express his gratitude for what his aunt did for him.…
Her character represents a divided one, where the superego dominates the id and the ego. She is most likely the most sane, driven character throughout the play because she is practical. She realizes the wrongdoings of her husband, John Proctor, but does not desire to take revenge or anything of the sort. Although most people who be outraged by the fact that their significant other had an affair, Elizabeth stays calm and understanding. She expressed those feelings to John in act two when she told Proctor, “I do not judge you…I never thought you but a good man… only somewhat bewildered” (Miller 55).…