The Pros And Cons Of Gay Marriage And Adoption

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As a conclusion, there are many misunderstandings about gay / lesbian relationships, their marriage and adoption. People do not even sure about the definition of the word “marriage”. Marriage does not have to be between a man and a woman. People should not exclude gays and lesbian because of the life they are living. It is not their choice, a man does not wake up one day in the morning and decides to be gay. They are born this way and it is proved with scientific researches. They should be able to adopt children as the straight parents do because they are no worse than the straight parents. They can be even better, because they have to be more prepared and they are more motivated. It is not an appropriate behavior to judge them within the scope

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