Indeed there is no wrong done by bringing someone in to the world in a way that compromises her opportunities for flourishing, because it promotes problematic values or reflects unacceptable motivations (Kumar 2003) or because it fails to promote the interests of an alternative possible child (Holtug 2009) , (3) that the non identity problem is illusory and that someone can indeed be harmed by being brought into existence( Harman 2004 ), (Benatar 2006) defends the extreme view that we are always harmed by coming in to existence and hence that all child bearing is
