In “Rules of the Game,” Tan highlights some issues that appear in mother-daughter relationships. Although Waverly’s mom is supportive, she is overbearing and too critical when it comes to her children. Waverly’s mom lives vicariously through her daughters success. She cares more about the attention that Waverly’s success brings, rather than how her daughter is feeling after all these events occur.…
“ A Mother’s controlling habits” A mothers role is to love their child unconditionally and want the best for them. But their constant constructive criticism can turn a loving mother into a nagging one. In the short story "Two Kinds" by Amy Tan, Ni Kans mother is constantly pushing her to strive for the "American Dream. " Just like any mother would like to guide their child which is understandable, but for them to dictate their life is completely wrong. Ni Kans mother should have guided her to the right path instead of telling her how to live her life, Ni Kans mother should not have a say towards her future and here is a few reasons why is because this may lead a child to become rebellious and demonstrating hostile to others, dictating…
Are the so-called choices for women who want to become mothers really choices at all? In the documentary The Mommy Mystique: The Anxiety of Modern Motherhood, the women Judith Warner (author) speaks to, in her book, are middle and upper class who grew up in the 1970’s, the first generation to go to college and graduate school in percentages that match their counterparts. Women who grew up with feminist eloquence, if not part of that movement, they were accustomed to modern standards for women’s equality. Women who aspired to have careers.…
Well-Known intellectual, Malcolm Gladwell, in chapter 9 of his book Outliers, addresses the topic of the “achievement gap” and argues that summer vacation is very harmful for the educational career of a lower class children and they need to “shed” part of their culture to help them succeed academically. I agree with Gladwell’s theory, sometimes you have to let go of the old this to succeed in the new. In the beginning of chapter 9 Gladwell speaks about a school named KIPP, which stands for Knowledge is Power program. KIPP is a experimental middle like no other.…
In the essay ‘Take Me out of Their Ball Game’ by Maria Guhde Keri, the author illustrates a prevalent situation in any child's life, “Did you ever walk into a room where kids are playing, say, a board game? They're animated, excited, totally focused on what they're doing. When you appear, they stiffen, grow quiet, and appear confused. An adult is watching, and suddenly the game and rules are changed-maybe even ruined.” In this scenario the presence of an authority figure sours the mood.…
Have you ever wondered why parents often force their children to do things that their children feel are either unnecessary or inappropriate for their age level? One narrator feels the same way when she complains to her mother, ”You want to be someone that I’m not!”(Tan 231). In “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, Jing-mei, the protagonist of the story, has a difficult relationship with her mother because her mother wants her to be something that she feels she is not: a prodigy. However, in the end, Jing-mei’s conflict with her mother ends with an age-old adage: mother is correct. After a careful analysis of the story, the reader understands how Jing-mei’s feelings toward her mother changed, why her feelings changed, and how those changed feelings affected the entire story.…
Reader-Based Analysis: “Two Kinds” focuses on a mother and daughter’s relationship. Jing-Mei’s mother faced many hardships in China. The mother lost so many near and dear to her. For the mother, America was the country to offer them great living and opportunities. Jing-Mei’s mother wanted to see her daughter as a successful person.…
Children, Parents, and Their Influences Parents in our day and age have a great influence on their children and what their offspring will become in the future. Children watch their parents and copy their every move when they are little because in a child’s eye their parents are heroes. Parents have the greatest influence on their children from sports, to hobbies, their outlook on life, and to know the difference between right and wrong. THESIS! “Designer Babies and Other Fairy Tales” by Maureen Freely is introduced by telling the reader about a three-year-old named, Zain.…
Born in 1864 in Ann Arbor, Michigan, as a child of a Michigan Supreme Court Judge, Charles Horton Cooley experienced childhood in a family unit where training was exceedingly esteemed and with elevated requirements set upon him by his aspiring father. In 1894, Cooley earned his PhD from the University of Michigan. In 1905, he established the American Sociological Association and in 1907 turned into a full teacher of humanism at the University of Michigan. He remained educating at the college for his whole career. Charles Horton Cooley was a humanist who needed to better comprehend society and human conduct.…
MVL Child Development & Critical Thinking Paper Fall 2015 Valentine Matongoh Colorado State University Raising my virtual child in the virtual life simulation was very eye-opening and a great experience. I attempted to raise my child as an authoritative parent due to the fact that my parents are authoritarians, and it was not the best parenting style. An authoritarian parent is a parent who is high in demandingness and low in responsiveness (Arnett, 2012).…
Robert Anderson’s realistic modern play I Never Sang for My Father highlights a prickly relationship between a father and a son. One major character in this play is Margaret. This character is a mother and wife who cares for others and their needs more than hers. My mother has a character similar to Margaret. She donates money to charities or organizations like Friends of Leprosy to demonstrate her humaneness and generosity.…
Mothers and daughters have different points of view about dreams in their lives. Mothers draw in their minds the kind of life their daughters will be in the future. They do not consider their expectations are far away from their daughters dreams. In this world, mothers and daughters do not conceive the same thoughts about someone future. Mothers regularly make plans towards their daughters’ lives without thinking their daughters have other plans which differ from them.…
RAISING DAUGHTERS James E. Faust once said, “To be a good father and mother requires that the parents defer many of their own needs and desires in favor of the needs of their children. As a consequence of this sacrifice, conscientious parents develop a nobility of character and learn to put into practice the selfless truths taught by the Savior Himself”. Faust speaks on how in his eyes, parents should try to be less enthralled in their children’s lives in order to be “good”. The preceding proposal is directly correlative to both Amy Tan’s “Rules Of The Game” and Jamaica…
Madison Attaway Paper 2 Word Count : 893 The Most Important Value Being a parent is one of the most rewarding and difficult practice someone can do in their life. You have to provide your children with the necessities love them and care for them. A parent should always put the needs of their children above their own needs. Ultimately supporting them in everything they do despite your grievances against their actions.…
Play on the other hand, develops self by allowing persons to take on varying roles, pretends and expresses expectation of others. Plays are most likely to be occurred in children and it is a frequent ongoing practice in children. For Mead, play develops one’s self-consciousness through role-play. Mead postulated that during role-play, individuals are able to internalize the perspectives of others and develop an understanding of how others might feel about themselves and others in a variety of social situations. Games develop self by…