Black Mary In The Secret Life Of Bees

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The Power of the Black Mary In the quote by Jerry Bridges, “practice of true community involves responsibilities and actions that do not come naturally to us,” can convey that community is something that has to be earned by trust and respect and not only by willingness. In The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, the novel takes place in the mid-1960’s, where the protagonist Lily is living with T-Ray, her emotionally and physically abusive father, and Rosaleen, an African American housekeeper who was seen as a mother figure, as she struggles with a guilty conscience about the death of her actual mother. Then fourteen years later, Lily still living with her abusive father, however after breaking out Rosaleen from jail, the same day she got placed under arrest, Lily decides to run away to Tiburon, South Carolina, a place where her deceased mother might have visited once in hopes to bring her closer to her mother. Nonetheless, in Tiburon, Lily meets a woman named August and her sisters June and May …show more content…
Although, life for Lily was always surrounded by the guilt she had about her mother's death, nonetheless, Lily was able find the Boatwright sisters and the Daughters of Mary where she learns about the power of the Black Mary, and through the Black Mary’s power Lily was able to enter an innercircle of women who love and care for her regardless of her race and background.The Black Mary power was something that one could physically see but through one's heart her power can fully shine, getting stronger with the person. Black Mary’s power was so strong for Lily and the community of strong women that is was like glue that held them together through their up and downs as long as they kept faith within themselves and in their Lady of

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