Her character is immediately described as “the eldest daughter whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgement” (Austen 5-6). It is Elinor’s use of silence that provides is description, as these virtues are “because her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them” (Austen 6). It is important to note that Elinor’s calculated actions and speech are not indicative of a dearth of feelings, but rather a strong grip on their execution. Not only do Elinor’s verbal reservations allow her to protect herself, but they also provide her with a romantic avenue to Edward. The attraction that forms between Elinor and Edward is initially never outwardly expressed; it is through their quiet and undisturbed demeanors that they garner esteem for each other. Elinor claims that “[t]he excellence of his understanding and his principles can be concealed only by that shyness which too often keeps him silent” (Austen 16). Unlike Marianne’s boisterous relationship with Willoughby, Elinor and Edward’s romance is found in the silent and meaningful cracks between
Her character is immediately described as “the eldest daughter whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgement” (Austen 5-6). It is Elinor’s use of silence that provides is description, as these virtues are “because her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them” (Austen 6). It is important to note that Elinor’s calculated actions and speech are not indicative of a dearth of feelings, but rather a strong grip on their execution. Not only do Elinor’s verbal reservations allow her to protect herself, but they also provide her with a romantic avenue to Edward. The attraction that forms between Elinor and Edward is initially never outwardly expressed; it is through their quiet and undisturbed demeanors that they garner esteem for each other. Elinor claims that “[t]he excellence of his understanding and his principles can be concealed only by that shyness which too often keeps him silent” (Austen 16). Unlike Marianne’s boisterous relationship with Willoughby, Elinor and Edward’s romance is found in the silent and meaningful cracks between