However, women can’t even breastfeed their babies in public without being told “That’s disgusting, this is a family place” or “You should take that somewhere more private.” She faces all this harassment just to feed her baby. Also, in the poem, it says, “Every day as he/ whittles back the branches/ the gardener croons,” (9-11) these lines indicate how constantly receive this stress on their self-image, that is, every day. A barrage of words and images, from their family, from the media, from their culture, all telling them exactly how they should look to be “successful” in this patriarchal society. With “It is your nature/to be small and cozy/domestic and weak;” (12-14) the author is stressing how much society is telling women that they are meant to be seen and not heard, their opinions aren’t as important as men’s, that they should be
However, women can’t even breastfeed their babies in public without being told “That’s disgusting, this is a family place” or “You should take that somewhere more private.” She faces all this harassment just to feed her baby. Also, in the poem, it says, “Every day as he/ whittles back the branches/ the gardener croons,” (9-11) these lines indicate how constantly receive this stress on their self-image, that is, every day. A barrage of words and images, from their family, from the media, from their culture, all telling them exactly how they should look to be “successful” in this patriarchal society. With “It is your nature/to be small and cozy/domestic and weak;” (12-14) the author is stressing how much society is telling women that they are meant to be seen and not heard, their opinions aren’t as important as men’s, that they should be