Technology is a revolutionary breakthrough that is making the everyday lives of civilians more efficient. However, could this powerful tool be ruining friendships? Furthermore, this question has provoked heated discussion; Should technology be put down and pushed away, or picked up and used to our advantage? Friendship is a precious thing, and should be cherished. Technology 's effect on relationships has been hotly debated over. In, “Is Technology Killing Our Friendships,” by Lauren Tarshis, “Anti-Social Networking?” by Hilary Stout, and “Is Technology Making People Less Sociable,” by Dr. Hampton they explain in further depth. I am well educated on technology and its benefits, for I use various forms of it on a daily basis. Some may argue
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For some, they are under the assumption that technology is coming before friends. Individuals believe, “When kids are together they are interacting with their phones instead of each other”(Tarshis, 18). What they fail to realize is that children use their technology when together to bond and enhance friendships. For example, there are various apps friends could play such as two player hockey, video star, snapchat, and more to experience a fun time. This tool enhances friendships rather than kills them. Also, some may argue that children are mistaking online friends for ‘true friends.’ For example, “You need someone who will keep your secrets and hold your hand” (Tarshis, 18). Individuals believe that technology gives children false assumptions of a true friend, and they create a strong relationship with an online person. Because of this, they loose ties with other possible friends and are left with nobody to give them the support a true, real life friend would supply. However, online friends allow for easier expression of emotion. Users can chat with these friends without the fear of being judged or worry about speaking face to face with another. It provides a sense of comfort and allows people to release emotions that have been on there chest. Such people who give one support and are there for the individual no matter the …show more content…
People should pick up their phones, laptops and tablets and use them to strengthen the bond between friendships. Despite the fact that some believe technology is killing relationships, I strongly believe that it is strengthening them. Technology allows individuals to connect/reconnect with distant friends. It also permits the exchange of motivational advice, which contributes to lower stress levels. Lastly, it lets friends check up on others who are emotionally distressed, or who find it difficult to share feelings face-to-face. Why discourage such a beneficial tool when our generation could use it to it’s ability. “Be the change that you want to see in the world,” and start a technological
For some, they are under the assumption that technology is coming before friends. Individuals believe, “When kids are together they are interacting with their phones instead of each other”(Tarshis, 18). What they fail to realize is that children use their technology when together to bond and enhance friendships. For example, there are various apps friends could play such as two player hockey, video star, snapchat, and more to experience a fun time. This tool enhances friendships rather than kills them. Also, some may argue that children are mistaking online friends for ‘true friends.’ For example, “You need someone who will keep your secrets and hold your hand” (Tarshis, 18). Individuals believe that technology gives children false assumptions of a true friend, and they create a strong relationship with an online person. Because of this, they loose ties with other possible friends and are left with nobody to give them the support a true, real life friend would supply. However, online friends allow for easier expression of emotion. Users can chat with these friends without the fear of being judged or worry about speaking face to face with another. It provides a sense of comfort and allows people to release emotions that have been on there chest. Such people who give one support and are there for the individual no matter the …show more content…
People should pick up their phones, laptops and tablets and use them to strengthen the bond between friendships. Despite the fact that some believe technology is killing relationships, I strongly believe that it is strengthening them. Technology allows individuals to connect/reconnect with distant friends. It also permits the exchange of motivational advice, which contributes to lower stress levels. Lastly, it lets friends check up on others who are emotionally distressed, or who find it difficult to share feelings face-to-face. Why discourage such a beneficial tool when our generation could use it to it’s ability. “Be the change that you want to see in the world,” and start a technological