Men say they got friend zoned when they believe they were wronged, they behaved like a gentleman and did what they thought was right to get the girl, but she still didn’t want more than a friendship. This belief coexists with sexual entitlement, or where men they are are entitled to the woman because they did what they should have. This is not the case. Women are capable of making their own decisions and doing what they want, including not having sex with a nice guy (Ferguson). Guys shouldn’t be nice just to get the girl, but that’s the way it often is. Be eliminating the term, we can make being nice associated with human decency, what everyone should do just because it’s right. With the same idea of eliminating it, it will stop giving the friend zoned person sympathy and stop feeding shame and guilt to the person who friend zoned someone. Not saying the term and calling it what it is, rejection, we can stop making women feel guilty for doing what they
Men say they got friend zoned when they believe they were wronged, they behaved like a gentleman and did what they thought was right to get the girl, but she still didn’t want more than a friendship. This belief coexists with sexual entitlement, or where men they are are entitled to the woman because they did what they should have. This is not the case. Women are capable of making their own decisions and doing what they want, including not having sex with a nice guy (Ferguson). Guys shouldn’t be nice just to get the girl, but that’s the way it often is. Be eliminating the term, we can make being nice associated with human decency, what everyone should do just because it’s right. With the same idea of eliminating it, it will stop giving the friend zoned person sympathy and stop feeding shame and guilt to the person who friend zoned someone. Not saying the term and calling it what it is, rejection, we can stop making women feel guilty for doing what they