The Most Important Goal Of My Life Essay

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The most important goal I want to achieve in my life is to get married and be a happy family. Ever since I was a little girl I always tried to imagine my wedding and my perfect life after marriage. There is this part of me that can 't wait for me to be settled and have someone close to me that cares about me. But there is another part that has this fear of giving up my independence and not being truly loved.
From a young age, my parents would say, “This is your temporary home, your real home is with your husband.” I never really understood what they meant until I started understanding my culture and religion. My religion says that a girl should be willing to get married. But my culture thinks that if a girl doesn’t want to get married there must be something wrong with the girl or her family and they say she’s a disgrace to the family.
In ten to 20 years I really do want to see myself married and happy with my own family. I don 't want to worry about my husband leaving me or being dependent on my husband. I want to build so much trust and love between us that our relationship becomes shatterproof. I want to follow my traditions and my religion and get married but nowhere in both of those does it say that I will be happy with my decision. To turn this dream into a need I need to change my fears and focus on my personality. I have a very introvert personality. I enjoy being alone and I don 't know how I will live my life having a partner constantly being there by my side.…

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