The Media's Oppression Of Gender Stereotypes

While growing up in a white, male dominated, heterosexual society I sometimes struggle to find comfort in being a woman. Even though I’m from an affluent, privileged neighborhood, I feel uncomfortable walking home late at night, putting my drink down at a party, or being with a group of female friends, unescorted by a man. Not only is protecting myself an issue, but I also struggle to balance the social pressures of “skinny” vs. “curvy,” and “bitchy” vs. “sweetheart.” Women have been fighting these social structures for generations, yet still feel objectified, unsafe and marginalized.
After parties in high school in San Francisco my girlfriends and I would walk home to a friend’s house, but we would not feel comfortable unless we were with …show more content…
“curvy.” Body image is such a controversial topic because the media constantly shows tall, thin women as being sexy. However, men are also attracted to women who have larger butts and breasts. The media’s ideal woman and that of the heterosexual male are at odds with one another. Most women, including myself, don’t fall under either of these two contradictory labels. I grew up playing sports my entire life and have long noticed that athletic women don’t fit into this equation. The media rarely speaks about female athletes, but when they do, it is usually sexist. For example, Serena Williams, a world-renowned tennis player, has been subjected to comments regarding her physique. Critics say she looks too masculine and is not feminine enough. However, I wonder…too masculine? Not feminine enough? What exactly is the right amount of masculinity and femininity, and who dictates these standards? Moreover, shouldn’t we be applauding the incredible talent, dedication and strength that strong women like Serena Williams …show more content…
When a woman is called a “sweetheart,” she is being submissive, pleasant and people usually don’t take her seriously. I personally have struggled to find the balance between being my kind self while being a leader. I am currently a part of the second co educated pledge class of Psi U. Since fraternities are a male dominated society if I want to make a point or feel uncomfortable in anyway, I have to be able to take leadership and clearly state my opinion. However, I also have to maintain a sweet demeanor. Women are supposed to maintain this balance of being leaders in the world while also being pleasant and people