The Major Conflict In 'Where You Are Going'

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The specific point in the story that my expectation about “Where You Are Going,” change when the strange car arrived in Connie's driveway. Since at first,it looked like it was going to be a story about a girl trying to find her loved one. In the story, while they were at the mall they were checking out guys and flirting. Connie expected that the guy at the restaurant to be sane and nice however he turned to be crazy obsessed with her.
The major conflict in “Where You Are Going,” is external to the point that not only was she in danger but her family would be. The major conflict is internal since Arnold’s friend was playing mind games with her and at the end, she was so scared that she hallucinated that she opened the door. Connie acted like

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