Both situations involve an individual feeling “incomplete” or “wrong” in their current body or self. In the case of transsexuals, they feel that they have been born in the wrong body in the sense that they feel they should be another gender. Those with apotemnophilia also feel that they should have a different body, but in the sense that they perceive one or more of their limbs as “extra” or “not a true part of themselves.” Both situations involve building one’s identity around what will make them their desired self. As A New Way to Be Mad states, “…an identity can be built around a desire. The person you have become may be a consequence of the things you desire.” (pg. 80, A New Way to Be Mad) Often, desires such as this are not entirely internal, however. They often are a result of social influences. For example, many of those studied and written about in A New Way to Be Mad “…describe…a “life changing’ experience with an amputee as a child…most trace their desire to become amputees back to before the age of six or seven, and some will say they cannot remember a time when they didn’t have the desire.” (pg. 76, A New Way to Be Mad) In this case, it seems to be a
Both situations involve an individual feeling “incomplete” or “wrong” in their current body or self. In the case of transsexuals, they feel that they have been born in the wrong body in the sense that they feel they should be another gender. Those with apotemnophilia also feel that they should have a different body, but in the sense that they perceive one or more of their limbs as “extra” or “not a true part of themselves.” Both situations involve building one’s identity around what will make them their desired self. As A New Way to Be Mad states, “…an identity can be built around a desire. The person you have become may be a consequence of the things you desire.” (pg. 80, A New Way to Be Mad) Often, desires such as this are not entirely internal, however. They often are a result of social influences. For example, many of those studied and written about in A New Way to Be Mad “…describe…a “life changing’ experience with an amputee as a child…most trace their desire to become amputees back to before the age of six or seven, and some will say they cannot remember a time when they didn’t have the desire.” (pg. 76, A New Way to Be Mad) In this case, it seems to be a