Tough love
Tough love is an expression used when someone treats another person harshly or sternly with the intent to help them in the long run, to use tough love you need to feel actual love for the person behind this action! It sounds much like I have taken the sentence from the dictionary and you would be right, because that’s exactly what I did to try and gain some insight to what that really means. Much like I was looking for a way to understand the reason this has to happen, and the words on every page made complete sense laying there in front of me in black and white. Advice is given freely where I could dot the i's and cross the t's this should be a breeze if only I follow their direction what was I worried about? Here I sit with all that knowledge aware that this action is taken daily by so many people on this journey of tough love. But in truth I am butting my head against a brick wall almost daily as I try to find my way through this emotion.
The problem with this tough love is that we are not a flat piece of paper where those words could written across our consciousness and not be effected emotional because of this action taken, If only we could upload a blueprint where our own feelings could pushed into the subconscious. But the problem …show more content…
We’ve tried everything else to no avail they just don’t seem to see the pain they are causing us; in truth do they even see what they are doing? A harder emotion felt deeply is do they really care? I felt my heart strings being pulled by that statement because no one is immune to this situation during our life time. So it seems that this tough love will always go both ways because within it we have nowhere to hide from the love felt towards that other person believe me I’ve tried and it’s no easy
Tough love is an expression used when someone treats another person harshly or sternly with the intent to help them in the long run, to use tough love you need to feel actual love for the person behind this action! It sounds much like I have taken the sentence from the dictionary and you would be right, because that’s exactly what I did to try and gain some insight to what that really means. Much like I was looking for a way to understand the reason this has to happen, and the words on every page made complete sense laying there in front of me in black and white. Advice is given freely where I could dot the i's and cross the t's this should be a breeze if only I follow their direction what was I worried about? Here I sit with all that knowledge aware that this action is taken daily by so many people on this journey of tough love. But in truth I am butting my head against a brick wall almost daily as I try to find my way through this emotion.
The problem with this tough love is that we are not a flat piece of paper where those words could written across our consciousness and not be effected emotional because of this action taken, If only we could upload a blueprint where our own feelings could pushed into the subconscious. But the problem …show more content…
We’ve tried everything else to no avail they just don’t seem to see the pain they are causing us; in truth do they even see what they are doing? A harder emotion felt deeply is do they really care? I felt my heart strings being pulled by that statement because no one is immune to this situation during our life time. So it seems that this tough love will always go both ways because within it we have nowhere to hide from the love felt towards that other person believe me I’ve tried and it’s no easy