The Importance Of Tragic Experiences In My Life

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How many times we feel low or sad due to tragic experiences in life ?Gosh, I think so many times. people always tend to ask questions like

what should we do now...all things has lost...?

I think I don,t have faith in myself what to do now?

To answer all those sorts of questions I share a story with you

There was a poor old farmer who lived with his teenage son and a wife. His son used to help his father in farming because of his father's old age for almost 1 year.

Sudden on one afternoon. His hand got stuck in the thrasher machine and has been damaged pretty bad. Doctors advised him to chop off his one hand otherwise there be chances of paralysis to the whole body. so there was no option left except cutting his hand.

So he has to lose
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This was his courage and dedication that makes him different & superior from others. After 10 years he was a professor in a top most agricultural institute.

Moral-"Adversities & tough situations bring out the best in you. So be strong in your low don't let the situations to break you"

so here are the ways that keep you motivated even if chips are down

stay attached to a specific mantra-

There is so much motivation all around the world. That wherever we float our eyes we will find motivation. The only thing that stops us from seeing that is our perception. So we need to change our perception towards life and make it a positive one. So that we Aren't feel low and sad in difficult times.

set your expectation low-

If we fail at something small things also seems to be difficult. So we have to correct this by taking small measures step by step one at a time. so we set our expectations low we will get the victory quicker and faster. This builds our inner self-confidence and leads us towards success.

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if we are down and low we tend to remain alone in fear of that one will ask the questions we don't want to
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It will only get to harm you because time is precious and once it was gone it doesn't come back. So alternative you can do something. Which cherishes you whether it's your hobby. That you always wanted to do or spending quality time with your family and children's. whatever be the case you could do that thing.

start celebrating your little achievements

we have a unique characteristic which we didn't notice often. We always see what we didn't have instead of observing what actually we have. So you haven't need to fear that I didn't have done that just celebrate and get happy for those you had achieved.

think less do more

Human mind programmed to think around 50000-70000 thoughts per day. If you go by it what,s the number of thought you actually put in place? Chances are probably 0.1% that's mine your's may differ. So if that's the case then we are the prey of overthinking. Overthinking just creates doubts in our mind. So the only trick is to get rid of this is to less thinking and doing more.this way we kept busy and doesn't feel depressed.

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