The Importance Of Teenage Relationships

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Then, to allow teenagers have healthy relationships with the help of parents can make them mature more quickly and become more independent later in days and avoid some terrible results from young love. Headspace, the National Youth Mental Health Foundation, published an article state that “Romantic relationships are…a major cause of strong emotions in adolescence…both positive and negative.” (para. 2)We, both teenagers and parents, all expect there are more happiness, excitement and laugh in relationships. However, quarrels and conflict sometimes cannot be avoided in a relationship. In other words, these things must happen in a relationship, even the relationship is healthy. When teenagers experience conflicts or even break up with the person …show more content…
For example, if a girl breaks up with his boyfriend, parents should teach her that to be sad is a common feeling and it is better to lead a regular life again: do sports, study hard and love everyone who loves you, but not just stay in the room, crying all the day and doing nothing. Also, this is a very proper time for parents to teach teenagers how to figure out if a guy or a girl reliable or not. Furthermore, from the view of sex, parents can already make their children have the awareness of sex safety because teenagers are immature and they can be irrational and impulsive. Parents need to tell their kids while dating, kisses and hugs can be allowed if your partner agree, but it is not proper and not safe for your age to do something further. After these things, teenagers are able to have more awareness of how to choose suitable partners and how to protect themselves from hurts in relationships. And they can also know how to take care of others, how to love someone and how to avoid potential bad results because, after all, they experience these events by themselves once or several …show more content…
Teenagers from age 13 to18 who are attending middle schools and high schools are more likely to break rules or act against the expectation of teachers and parents. They always hate parents give them order or over meddle in their own things, especially relationships. If parents do not encourage and ban teen relationships, they might do something makes teenagers feel bad, including warn them with strict language, check their phones and diaries or call teachers to supervise their children. Because teen romantic relationship is a controversial issue, it can cause many conflict between teenagers and parents. Typically, when teenagers meet this kind of thing their parents do with them, they will feel like that they are not be respected or treated like an individual, and they can even develop some psychological problems like depression. When teenager view their parents like enemy, but not people who can be trusted, who can help them or who love them the most, it is not good for the relationship and communication between parents and teenagers. Here is my personal experience. When I was in high school, I had a boyfriend. I always talk him on phone for a long time on Saturday evening. Once, my mom noticed and she warned me that I should not have intimate association with him and the major task for me was just to study hard. She also tried to

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