Cycle Of Violence In Full Frontal Feminism By Valenti

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As we are almost arriving to the end of this semester with five weeks remaining my professor has lectured us in depth about sex, gender, and desire. Sex is a topic everyone in their life will most likely come across eventually some sooner than others. While on the topic of sex it is best if you have positive communications with your significant other because you can have sex multiple types of ways. Like we learned in class lets change the term of sex(baseball) into pizza. Where in pizza we have variety, the option to not eat it anymore, and to change the toppings up for a chance. In baseball one team has to win unlike pizza where both of the people eating can win. Therefor many relationships endure they cycle of violence because of many misunderstandings. This cycle has three …show more content…
As in how women focus more on showing people what there significant other bought them on their wedding day or in Valentine’s Day. Rather than focus on more important details like is our relationship going to work out. In my experiences with dealing with men and going on dates I like to pay for myself because it is not always your dates responsibility to pay for you. Even though sometimes I do not mind it but love does not always have to have a price tag on it. Especially in our society like Valenti shared with us how the main question on romantic occasions is “What did you get”. In a senses a wedding is consider an exchange of property. Another issue Valenti discussed with us was about the “rape schedule” and how people react with it. Personally I do many things to adjust the way I live to avoid an accident for occurring. For instance I never walk with my head downwards, or walk alone at night time, I like to be on the phone when I get terrified if I am walking somewhere alone, and soon enough I will be carrying some pepper spray with

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