I was raped by my ex-boyfriend of 5 years. When someone violates your body without your consent. The only thing they are thinking about is exerting their power over you. There are multiple ways a person can relieve sexual tension instead of sexually assaulting someone. Blonna states, "Although, the rapist achieves sexual gratification through his actions…If sexual release were all that a rapist desires, he could achieve that by finding a willing partner, masturbating, or paying a prostitute for sex" (Blonna, 2004, p. 558). Unfortunately, there is a stigma across the world that blames the victims of sexual assault. Justice Arijit Pasayat, a former judge of the Supreme Court of India, stated, "While a murderer destroys the physical frame of the victim, a rapist degrades and defiles the soul of a helpless female" (Sharma, 2015). For the rest of my life, I will be haunted by that experience. Rape needs to be treated as a horrific crime that it is and not as a
I was raped by my ex-boyfriend of 5 years. When someone violates your body without your consent. The only thing they are thinking about is exerting their power over you. There are multiple ways a person can relieve sexual tension instead of sexually assaulting someone. Blonna states, "Although, the rapist achieves sexual gratification through his actions…If sexual release were all that a rapist desires, he could achieve that by finding a willing partner, masturbating, or paying a prostitute for sex" (Blonna, 2004, p. 558). Unfortunately, there is a stigma across the world that blames the victims of sexual assault. Justice Arijit Pasayat, a former judge of the Supreme Court of India, stated, "While a murderer destroys the physical frame of the victim, a rapist degrades and defiles the soul of a helpless female" (Sharma, 2015). For the rest of my life, I will be haunted by that experience. Rape needs to be treated as a horrific crime that it is and not as a