The Importance Of Parents

“Nowadays, most of the students are forced to opt a career according to the choice of their parents” (Education). The idea that parents are always right, and children must listen to their parents because parents know what it is good or bad for their children. It is an obsolete idea that needs to change. Parents who always love their children with all their heart and hope everything good happen to them. Therefore, they give everything that is good for children, and they want to protect them as much as they can. “reported that approximately 90% of the parents in their sample wanted their children to attend a university” (Ryan). They care so much about their future, so they want to choose and decide the career for them. They want their children …show more content…
Parents compel children to study this major because it will be easy to find a job and make a lot money, so other people will respect them. Parents will be proud of their children with their friends and other people when their children are successful in their career. However, sometimes loving and caring too much will make children hate their own parents just because parents get involved too much in their own lives. Everything has changed, and parents no longer involve themselves in deciding career for their children anymore. Children should be the only one who can choose and define their career development plan. Parents always want to protect their children from everything that is dangerous to them, and they don’t want to see kids get into a hard situation that they don’t know how to deal with. Thus, parents will endure every hard issue for their kids. Every parent has the same desire that they want to watch their children have a healthy and happy life. They are willing to suffer all difficult situations in order to give their kids an easy life. Parents have the rights to teach children what is wrong or right and help to settle problems. In a parent’s eyes, their kids are too small to understand everything, and they cannot solve things by themselves, so …show more content…
Over the past two decades, our society has experienced many changes that have kept some parents from fully undertaking this role in their child 's life.” (Griffis) In the past, parents have the rights to decide the child’s life, but time has changed; parents no long make the decision for their children. Parents cannot oblige children doing thing that they don’t like. The action coerces child to do things that parents want, it is a selfish thinking and abuse the children. Now we are living in the twentieth century with high technology, the rights, and freedom. Everyone has the freedom to do everything even though children also have the freedom to decide their career and choose what school they want to go. The child’s first teacher is their parents who will teach everything that they know for their child, and they share their experience that they have been through in their own lives. “When we bear children’s pain without dismissing it, they learn that something can hurt, but that they can handle it. If we rescue children from feeling pain by fighting their battles for them, they will not learn to stand up for themselves” (Cohen). Parents should teach their children how to face the problem, and not cede their work to other people. In addition, parents also teach children to take the responsibility with what they have done even though it is wrong or terrible. Parents support children with

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