As a fact, the stepfather cause them to feel the absence of security all around them by frequently abusing them and refusing them right, “one of its innovations was the notion that honest would be engendered by the absence of security, and so the lockers were designed and built both without locks and without the possibility od attaching locks” (Mamet 197). Since their mother was treat the the same way bu it father has a child it seems like that did fact her relation toward her children in the way that she did not offer much help to Mamet and his sister when they need it too. This show that parent and child relationships was not strong has it is supposed to be and shows also the parents did not portray the best parenting style toward their children. However, the essay “ my father’s life ‘’ by Raymond carver it illustrated one of the most important facet of personal identity, knowledge and understanding of parents and children relationships, and in this essay it seems more to be father-son relationship. Carver mentions his father and his own name” Raymond’’ has the share it and he employed it like a thread that weaves their relationship, that set them have inseparable connection mentioned Carver at his father’s funeral “ what I do remember is that I heard our name used a lot that afternoon, my dad’s name …show more content…
Also encouraged and support those who need it. Speak in a polite voice to anyone no matter what age the person can be always be gentle to everyone. One of the value I would always thank my parent for it praying, when I was young my parent teaches me how to pray and going to church each Sunday and participate in any activity at church I did not have a big meaning for me because I told that was what they want me to do. Has I been grown now understand that God is always there for me and attentive to what I said to him and hear me when I am call on him and does wonderful thing even my parents or relative never done to me. I also remember back day taught us to clear after ourselves, sometimes we were ends in tears and get punished she we did not clean our mess. By the reason why she was doing that was because she wants it us to be responsible, learned value of work, learn important skills we will use throughout our lives and contribute to household. Now that I am big girls I start to see the importance of all those value and behavior they us learn; it because they want us to become a better version of ourselves both my sibling and I, also it bond our