Dan Slater’s opinion of the effectiveness of online dating is flawed because of the ineffective matching process. Often, a couple is matched based …show more content…
Such features include many aspects of compatibility, like desired children, physical location, race, politics, and religion, but do not include perceived personality traits. Although these questions may help online daters get to know each other, the answers they provide could be false or too vague to determine a solid match. There are no real interactions online, getting to know a potential mate in person is preferred by most and has proven to be more effective because both parties can physically see how well the couple seeking to go on a date will be compatible. In the article “What Are the Real and Perceived Risks and Dangers of Online Dating?” by Couch, Pranee, and Pitts (2012) they mentioned many instances where “one profile was his true profile and the other was ‘the 32-yr old is the unreal me.’” The author claims he was using the real profile to look for a girl his age to be his girlfriend, while using the other profile in the hope of attracting older women for sex” (705). This real example is one of many reasons why one must be …show more content…
Online daters have to invest a large amount of time in internet resources if they want to succeed in finding love, it is difficult to develop their social skills in front of the computer if they never go out and socialize face-to-face. According to Gibbs et al, there is “an important distinction in online-to-offline relationships may be between expected online interaction and expected [Face-to-Face] interaction rather than purely short-term versus long-term interaction” (155). According to this quote, people who only want to keep dating online may be likely to be looking specifically for short term relationships, whereas it tends to seem they want to have a long term relationship for years to come. Also in an example given from Couch et al, “Phil, a 45-year-old man expressed his concerns: ‘One can only tell in person really if one is lying or not. Eyes are windows to the Soul as you know. Via chatting one can get hints someone might be lying, but it is a bit hard to tell’ ” (702). In person it is easier to tell if an individual can tell better if a person is lying or not rather than reading what he or she types to their love