Millennials. Often described as, Narcissistic, Entitled, Liberal, Nomadic, and most importantly lazy. But has anyone ever stopped to ask the question why? Why are millennials so different compared to past generations? What is about today's generation that is setting them back in development and advancement as adults? It's arguable that there are exceptions to millennial characteristics. Such as social and economic privileges. However, the consensus is that the lack of growing up is a universal experience. But is it entirely the generations fault? In her essay, "What Is It About 20-Somethings?" Robin Henig provides astonishing facts and explanations on why emerging adults are delaying independence. She goes into detail on how Biological/ Psychological
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There are no exceptions to who is affected by these influences. As emerging adults question their place in adulthood, so does society. Citizens can vote and join the army at the age of 18. But they can't drink until the age of 21, Drive at 16, Rent a car at 25, Stay under parental insurance till 26, yet are still considered dependents till 24. It's hard to be dependent and consider yourself an adult when society holds you back on feeling like one. "Culture expectations might also reinforce the delay" (Henig 205) Meaning, 20-somethings don't expect to be married, have a family …show more content…
"They haven't braced themselves for adulthood or all that comes with it" (Henig 205). Parents of emerging adults also lack ownership to these expectations. Today's parenting styles are drastically different compared to past generations. Emerging adults are incredibly dependent on their parents. Specifically, dependent on their social and financial support. But the main reason why is because parents allow it. As time goes on parents are becoming less and less strict and disciplined with their children. They are developing a sense of hovering and becoming helicopter parents, Ready to swoop in and solve any problems their child may have. Every parent wants the best for the children and for them to have a better life than they did. Wanting them to not have to worry about finances and adult responsibilities at too young of an age. However, with this method of parenting, it gets harder and harder on when to decide is the best time to cut the cord. Money makes the world go around. As many people would love to debate this statement, there is a certain truth about it. Without money, it is incredibly hard to succeed. Money is something
There are no exceptions to who is affected by these influences. As emerging adults question their place in adulthood, so does society. Citizens can vote and join the army at the age of 18. But they can't drink until the age of 21, Drive at 16, Rent a car at 25, Stay under parental insurance till 26, yet are still considered dependents till 24. It's hard to be dependent and consider yourself an adult when society holds you back on feeling like one. "Culture expectations might also reinforce the delay" (Henig 205) Meaning, 20-somethings don't expect to be married, have a family …show more content…
"They haven't braced themselves for adulthood or all that comes with it" (Henig 205). Parents of emerging adults also lack ownership to these expectations. Today's parenting styles are drastically different compared to past generations. Emerging adults are incredibly dependent on their parents. Specifically, dependent on their social and financial support. But the main reason why is because parents allow it. As time goes on parents are becoming less and less strict and disciplined with their children. They are developing a sense of hovering and becoming helicopter parents, Ready to swoop in and solve any problems their child may have. Every parent wants the best for the children and for them to have a better life than they did. Wanting them to not have to worry about finances and adult responsibilities at too young of an age. However, with this method of parenting, it gets harder and harder on when to decide is the best time to cut the cord. Money makes the world go around. As many people would love to debate this statement, there is a certain truth about it. Without money, it is incredibly hard to succeed. Money is something