This happens while you are not aware that you are connected on a far deeper level than the surface of the formed based role’s being identified with. The thought of losing someone you love becomes so painful, instead of a natural transition of form. This is mostly due to the mental identification with form as “important,” and a lack of spiritual awareness. This is where the mental belief "my child" is stemmed from. When you attach “my” or “mine" to a form and derive a sense of “ME” from it, the ego has come into the picture. There is always room for pain as you depend on the outside emotionally, whether this is a positive or negative perception in the collective ego mind of the majority. Just because children came into this world out of your bodies, does not mean they belong to you. Love with conditions is what this is, and what should simply be “guarding of the children,” quickly turns into control of them. This is not to say that you should always be on guard, trying to avoid attaching the word “my” to objects, but more so a reminder to remain aware as you are saying it. Simply ensuring the energy behind the words is not Egoic or possessive may you remember. Another common Egoic pattern is parents attempting to live their own "lack" through the children. When a child does not perform at a level the parents expect them to, the parents feel that they share in the loss as well. This could be sports, dance, school, or any other role and
This happens while you are not aware that you are connected on a far deeper level than the surface of the formed based role’s being identified with. The thought of losing someone you love becomes so painful, instead of a natural transition of form. This is mostly due to the mental identification with form as “important,” and a lack of spiritual awareness. This is where the mental belief "my child" is stemmed from. When you attach “my” or “mine" to a form and derive a sense of “ME” from it, the ego has come into the picture. There is always room for pain as you depend on the outside emotionally, whether this is a positive or negative perception in the collective ego mind of the majority. Just because children came into this world out of your bodies, does not mean they belong to you. Love with conditions is what this is, and what should simply be “guarding of the children,” quickly turns into control of them. This is not to say that you should always be on guard, trying to avoid attaching the word “my” to objects, but more so a reminder to remain aware as you are saying it. Simply ensuring the energy behind the words is not Egoic or possessive may you remember. Another common Egoic pattern is parents attempting to live their own "lack" through the children. When a child does not perform at a level the parents expect them to, the parents feel that they share in the loss as well. This could be sports, dance, school, or any other role and