The Importance Of Mechanistic Time

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Of course, I can. In the later chapter “Love,” we will be going further into depth on relationships and fulfillment. For now, allow me to help you cross the bridge. Time can be a useful tool to track and monitor life situations, such as when to take the children to soccer practice, meeting loved one’s for supper, or ensuring you are to make an event when it is starting. We will call this "mechanistic time," which is but a tool to use in the realm of now. It would be very difficult to navigate this society without the usage of mechanistic time. Time only becomes an illusion and very painful when it has taken over the mind and become what we shall call "Psychological time." The ego and time distortion are inseparable. The ego needs time illusion …show more content…
This happens while you are not aware that you are connected on a far deeper level than the surface of the formed based role’s being identified with. The thought of losing someone you love becomes so painful, instead of a natural transition of form. This is mostly due to the mental identification with form as “important,” and a lack of spiritual awareness. This is where the mental belief "my child" is stemmed from. When you attach “my” or “mine" to a form and derive a sense of “ME” from it, the ego has come into the picture. There is always room for pain as you depend on the outside emotionally, whether this is a positive or negative perception in the collective ego mind of the majority. Just because children came into this world out of your bodies, does not mean they belong to you. Love with conditions is what this is, and what should simply be “guarding of the children,” quickly turns into control of them. This is not to say that you should always be on guard, trying to avoid attaching the word “my” to objects, but more so a reminder to remain aware as you are saying it. Simply ensuring the energy behind the words is not Egoic or possessive may you remember. Another common Egoic pattern is parents attempting to live their own "lack" through the children. When a child does not perform at a level the parents expect them to, the parents feel that they share in the loss as well. This could be sports, dance, school, or any other role and

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