1. I need my space or I have to focus on me for a while.
There is of course more than one reason your girlfriend my have said this to you. First it may be a polite way to let you go or it may be that she really does need some space, which may or may not be because of you. I know it may be hard to swallow the first reason, yet sometimes two people are just too different to make a life together. It doesn’t necessarily mean you did anything wrong, still in the long run she feels things are not going to be permanent, so she has decided to take the step and move on. In the second reason; life, work or even you may be overwhelming her at the moment. She needs time to sort through whatever it is bothering …show more content…
What is your general perspective of them? It’s important to know there is more to your relationship than just being able to hang out and have fun. Understanding there are certain qualities in a person you are attracted to is a good way to start. For instance, you may want your partner to be a hard worker. First, because you don’t want to be the one doing all the work, making all the money, doing all the chores and carrying all the responsibilities. Secondly you may want to know they have determination that will help encourage you to do more in life, making the goals with an actual possibility of achieving them. You probably want a person that is intelligent or has a good sense of humor, someone that you can relate to, have a good conversation, and be interested in how their mind works. Faithfulness in a relationship is a vital quality for mostly all women. This not only entails whether a person can be trusted, but whether they will stand up for you and support you. Knowing what qualities you desire in a partner allows you to fully understand how you perceive them, and that your relationship runs on a deeper …show more content…
You may think you have let go of you past because you never bring it up when you are with her, but this is not actually letting go of it. I have found myself in more than one relationship that I had to live with the feeling that I was never going to be that girl. I was never going to be the love of his life. Carrying your last relationship into the next puts extra pressure on the woman and your relationship, no one wants to be in that position, no one ever wants to feel like they will never be enough. If you are not able to leave your past in the past, it is not wise for you to enter into another relationship, although it happens all the time, in my opinion the results are not usually