Love in marriage is the ultimate emotional union between two human beings. There are different levels of emotional union and all are important, but marriage is special because it is where two people share everything, physically, emotionally and spiritually. In marriage a man and a woman bond together as one. They are soul mates. A soul mates mate is a person with whom you have a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, sex, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and compatibility. The strongest romantic bond that you can achieve with another person is to become soul …show more content…
As suggested by the evolutionary theory of attraction the primary attraction of a man to a woman is based on fertility and the primary attraction of a woman to a man is based on his ability to provide and protect. A conjugal/romantic relationship has the main purpose of procreation to continue the human species. That is how humans are programmed and it is controlled by the subconscious mind.
It goes back to the caveman days and involves the hunter instinct. The hunter gene is very active in men when they first meet a new female. They show off their leadership skills - they ask you out; they pay for the meal; they open the door; they ask you to marry them. And women because of their biological instincts are subconsciously attracted to this behaviour - they fall so much in love with this potential partner; this provider; this potential father of her children.
It goes without saying therefore, that when a marriage fails that the attraction has died. The bond of attraction which held the union together has failed. The secret to saving a marriage lies in rebuilding that attraction. And how do you do