Why Do We Listen In A Raisin In The Sun

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Stephen R. Covey once said, “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply” Stephen is implying that people don't just listen to each other but to not actually think of what the person said, but instead just respond to that person. This is something that has to make a change people have to understand what is coming out of the speaker and also understand how to respond to the speaker. In the play A Raisin In The Sun by Lorraine Hansberry, a family of color by the name of the Youngers are going through a rough time with money situations. Throughout this play, money isn’t the only situation that is occurring, but additionally, characters not being heard by anyone even when they have something good to say and not so stupid nonsense that is not useful. Being not heard in life is not a thing you want to achieve in life but the fact to be heard is somewhere you have to get to, and people need to realize it's for the benefit of both people hearing each other out for what they have to say.
Relating to the play is not heard kicks in when Walter tries to tell his mother about the check that had come in. Towards the end of the play, Walter tells Mama, “Mama look Old Willy Harris put everything on paper” (70). Mama responds with, “Son I think you
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Throughout the play, Walter has been helping the Younger family try to make some money by trying to open his own liquor store and help around to family to make money. Walter tells Ruth, “Mama would listen to you. You know she listens to you more than she does me and Bennie. She thinks more of you” (32). Walter is simply telling Ruth that the fact that Mama wouldn’t let water be heard and instead would let Ruth Walters wife be heard more than him. They could be living on a whole other level if they would hear people out but instead, leave people just get left

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