The Importance Of Graciousness In Singapore

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In Mr Goh Chok Tong’s 1996 National Day Rally speech, he mentioned the

importance of Singapore becoming a gracious society. Thus, the Singapore

Kindness Movement (SKM), a non-profit and non-governmental organization,

was set up to encourage graciousness amongst Singaporeans. It aims to

spread awareness, influence people to spread kindness, and instill a sense of

responsibility in themselves. (SKM, About) has also commissioned a survey

called Social Graciousness Index (SGI) to measure the level of graciousness

based on people’s experience and perception of graciousness in Singapore.

(Graciousness: Improvements seen, but can they be sustained?) This paper

discusses various issues related to kindness and graciousness in Singapore
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3.2 Foreigner’s perception of Singapore’s graciousness

Charlotte Ashton, a foreign journalist, described Singapore as a “misery city”

from her experience of suffering morning sickness due to her pregnancy while

on a packed train in Singapore. She was upset that nobody offered their seats

or showed any concern, (Ashton, 2014). This sparked attention from ministers

like Acting Minister for Manpower Mr Tan Chuan Jin, Prime Minister, Lee

Hsien Loong and Acting Minister for Culture, Community and Youth Mr

Lawrence Wong. Mr Lee Hsien Loong shared the article and said, ” we can

still do much better... respect and help one another.” (Lee & Wong, 2014)

Thus, Singaporean’s do not leave a good impression on foreigners that we

are a gracious society.

3.3 Publicity stunt

Singa, the kindness mascot of SKM, made a media publicity stunt by

releasing his resignation letter to emphasize the need for kindness. The letter

expresses the Singa’s frustration and the need for Singaporeans to be more

gracious and less self centered. (Singa resigns, 2013) It turned out that SKM

did this to generate conversations and reactions on social media
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Goy, P. (2013). Retreived May 17, 2013 from Straits Times website: http://www.straitstimes.com/breaking-news/singapore/story/did-singas-resignation-letter-lack-kindness-20130517#2 4. Graciousness: Improvements seen, but can they be sustained? (2014). Retrieved 9 July 2014, from SKM website: http://kindness.sg/blog/2014/07/09/graciousness-improvements-seen-but- can-they-be-sustained/

5.Graciousness Index falls 8 points. (2013). Retrieved April 9, 2013 from SKM website: http://kindness.sg/blog/2013/04/09/graciousness-index-falls-eight-points/#.UWetz6JTCSp 6. (n.d) Kindness@Work (2014) Retrieved from SKM website: http://kindness.sg/blog/category/corporate/kindnesswork/ 7. (n.d) Koh, LT & Mazelan, bin A. Retrieved 4 July 2013, from SingaporeInfopedia: http://eresources.nlb.gov.sg/infopedia/articles/SIP_556_2004-12-23.html

8. Lee, HL & Wong, L. (2014). Rising to greater heights with kindness. Retrieved from PAP website: https://www.pap.org.sg/print/news-and-commentaries/news-reports/rising-greater-heights-kindness 9. More Kindness experienced graciousness index rise to 55 (2014). Retreived 4 August 2014, from SKM

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