It is a pattern of behavior found in healthy relationships based on Sutter Health Palo Alto Medical Foundation [1]. Respect is something everyone deserves, hence it is something partners should give to each other. The crucial part is to respect your partner decision. Even though you will be living a life together as one family, people still have freedom to be themselves and they expect to be respected in their boundaries. This is easily done by giving them time and privacy to carry out their tasks and activities. However, don’t forget to give yourselves time and try to balance between them. Above all, apart from respecting others, respect in yourselves is nonetheless, equally important. You are free to express your thoughts and share your opinions with your partners. It is not a wise thing to do to keep everything to yourselves as you have the right to speak and the right to let your partners know what is on your …show more content…
Similar to respect and understand, couples are meant to trust in one another. Trust is what you build from honesty and sincerity you give towards someone. There is a research shows how trust is important in business and economics [3]. Thus, losing someone’s trust once and it might not be able to rebuild at all. The tricks to not breaking someone’s trust is to telling no lies and keeping no secrets. Lying might make your partner feel contented for a certain time, but once your secret has been found out, that is when trouble runs to you. Mistrust, however, does not always arise from dishonesty. When you do not believe in your partners at heart, a lack of trust will be creeping into the relations [4]. Likewise, saying no, shows that you are being sincere. Learn to refuse or negate when you disagree on something. Saying yes all the time to make your partners feel happy does not make your relationship goes well for eternity. Distance plays a dominant role, as limit in time might prevent from saying what you truly