The Importance Of Fitting With People

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It’s important in our life to fit in a group, because it’s part of life to knowing each other. Some people think fitting with other people is hard, but we should try to have friends. Knowing the right people directly impact the lives of people at a later time. Fitting with others is reunion, it’s so hard, and fitting will make you feel happy.

Fitting in is reunion. Sometime we said if there are anyone missed me our thinking about me, this thought maybe course through someone’s mind after being rejected. There are some ways that some people do, dressing a nice dress and acting not the way he act just because he want attention to fit in with others. If someone is always rejected from any group it maybe from this person and he should fix himself. Getting ignored from others the person will feel so bad, and it’s a bad feeling.
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Some people face a social pressure that let them feel so hard to fit with others. It’s hard by acting and dressing. Some people they always dress an expansive clothe just to be notice that everyone wants to fit with. Some people act like they are special and they act not in the normal way just in this places. Moreover, like they are wearing a white cloth and from inside they are black. And now a day we can see this kind of people everywhere such as school, and collage.

Fitting with people like I said, being liked from other people you should change yourself. Some people they can’t fit with others because they can’t or they don’t know how to change themselves and that why they think that fitting is so hard. If they feel stressed about fitting and changing themselves, maybe they will just be like who they are. But, they should fit in with others to make them life better of being lonely, that would make them so sad. Keep trying is the best way of fitting

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