The Importance Of Evenings With Sri Bhagavan

In the fourth phase, all the separation end. No such a thing as servicing the others. You really become the others, you become one, that naturally happens. If we can become aware of where we are which phase of evolution that we are in: one, two, three. Even just becoming aware of where you are would help you to move forward.

Take a look how big is your self? Does it include your family? Your community? Your neighborhood? What phase are you in right now? Understand and appreciate whatever it is that you are going through in this moment. Love yourself for where you are. You can be in two with glimpses of three or in three with a glimpse of four. Sometimes you can get obsessed with these glimpses of four and you don’t grow any further. This is why it is so important to set right your relationships. After setting right …show more content…
The self being an illusory thing, the self does not really exist. It is just born out of sensory coordination and all the psychological contents that create the self. It does not have any existence of its own. So constantly it must be reminded, "Yes, yes, you are there. You are very much there." And this happens if somebody loves you. Then you constantly feel reinforced. You feel the reality of your existence. that you are wanted and therefore you are there. That gives you a nice sense of security, a good feeling. So you crave for love.
Once you discover love, that you, yourself are love, you will no more beg for love. All this love that the youth are talking about, it is begging for love, you just keep begging for love. Once you discover this true love, you just give love. You no more beg for love, and to have true love is almost to become awakened. So when you awaken you are not there and when you are not there what is there is only love. In which case, you don't beg for love. But as long as that does not happen there is insecurity, fear because every moment the self is