The Importance Of Dating The Right Way

Dating the “Right Way” is an endeavor that we should all aim to do. Many of you may ask, “What is dating the right way exactly? Well, what I mean is, getting out of this mindset where we believe that, “I think someone is super attractive, why shouldn’t I just go for it”! This my friend, is one of the common misconceptions of dating in our current society. Dating is an interaction between two individuals who share an interest in one another. In dating, each person gets to know the other through a series of interactions that allows them to get to know the other person a bit more intimately each and every time. In other cases, dating is a means to an end. Some people date to find their life long partner- the person they wish to spend the rest of their life with whereas, others date with a specific motive be it sex, money, or fame. Dating can be fun when done appropriately. Dating is meant to be an exciting learning experience. In many cases, dating teaches you more about yourself and your behaviors in certain situations. It shows you what you like, don’t like, what you are willing to put up with, what your aspirations are and it even teaches you how to love in ways you …show more content…
It is of utmost importance to discover and explore these things before settling in to a place of comfort with someone you barely know. Have you considered, what are their likes and dislikes? What makes them happy and vice versa? What are their future plans and goals? Do they want children? What about marriage? A series of questions that allow you to understand this person on a much deeper and personal level will better prepare you for the life you would like to live and better yet, if this is the person you plan to share that life with. This general information known about your mate will create root to a fruitful life together or it will allow you to know when to uproot of the