2. Over-prepare and go forth.
There is no better way to conquer your fear than by over-preparing. Over-preparing in all possible areas of your life gives you a sense of confidence and certainty because you anticipate all potential outcomes.
For example:
You see an attractive individual in the bookstore and have an urge to get to know her. You don’t look your best, but you still muster the courage to head straight into her invisible boundary (more on that in later chapters). However, you then mumble a few thoughtless lines, such as, “Hi, how are you? Are you here alone? Reading anything interesting?”
She is stunned by your sudden appearance, and her defense shield goes up (yes, every woman has an invisible defense shield), thinking to …show more content…
Casual conversation can be as simple as making small talk with your neighbor, the cashier at the supermarket, or the waiter serving you. You can begin with just a huge smile and a simple greeting, asking how their day has been.
Initiating casual conversation on a regular basis will create a routine and a belief that approaching someone is easy! This routine will eventually transform into a habit, automatically sharpen your skills, and increase your confidence as it decreases your approach anxiety.
“There’s no such thing as failure. There are only results.
You always produce a result.”
~ Tony Robbins
4. Commit to your dating success.
What must one have to achieve success in life? Commitment and persistence. Never give up!
Harland David Sanders, the famous KFC “Colonel,” got his chicken recipe rejected by more than a thousand restaurants before getting his first YES!
Marilyn Monroe’s first contract with Columbia Pictures expired because they told her she wasn’t pretty enough or talented enough to be an actress.
The list of celebrities who suffered setbacks early in their careers is inexhaustible…
M1 Famous Successful …show more content…
Some men may crave Playboy Bunnies, but others will choose to be with plain Janes.
Men’s attraction toward women is not limited to only external beauty. It extends to compatibility and intellectual competence. The same is true for women’s attraction toward men.
MISCONCEPTION 2: If I walk up and talk to an attractive stranger in a public venue, there’ll be many pairs of eyes watching me. Some may think I am easy, lame, or worse, a loser.
TRUTH 2: First off, most people are too engrossed in their own lives to notice you. Those who do notice you are secretly vying for your success. More importantly, they envy and admire you, even though you may not succeed in your efforts to score a date.
Why? Because most of them do not have the courage to approach strangers in public.
MISCONCEPTION 3: The best way to start a conversation with a member of the opposite sex is to start with a good opening line.
TRUTH 3: Although a creative and well-delivered opener can work its charm, what’s important is that you are consistent with your values and intentions when starting a conversation with a
There is no better way to conquer your fear than by over-preparing. Over-preparing in all possible areas of your life gives you a sense of confidence and certainty because you anticipate all potential outcomes.
For example:
You see an attractive individual in the bookstore and have an urge to get to know her. You don’t look your best, but you still muster the courage to head straight into her invisible boundary (more on that in later chapters). However, you then mumble a few thoughtless lines, such as, “Hi, how are you? Are you here alone? Reading anything interesting?”
She is stunned by your sudden appearance, and her defense shield goes up (yes, every woman has an invisible defense shield), thinking to …show more content…
Casual conversation can be as simple as making small talk with your neighbor, the cashier at the supermarket, or the waiter serving you. You can begin with just a huge smile and a simple greeting, asking how their day has been.
Initiating casual conversation on a regular basis will create a routine and a belief that approaching someone is easy! This routine will eventually transform into a habit, automatically sharpen your skills, and increase your confidence as it decreases your approach anxiety.
“There’s no such thing as failure. There are only results.
You always produce a result.”
~ Tony Robbins
4. Commit to your dating success.
What must one have to achieve success in life? Commitment and persistence. Never give up!
Harland David Sanders, the famous KFC “Colonel,” got his chicken recipe rejected by more than a thousand restaurants before getting his first YES!
Marilyn Monroe’s first contract with Columbia Pictures expired because they told her she wasn’t pretty enough or talented enough to be an actress.
The list of celebrities who suffered setbacks early in their careers is inexhaustible…
M1 Famous Successful …show more content…
Some men may crave Playboy Bunnies, but others will choose to be with plain Janes.
Men’s attraction toward women is not limited to only external beauty. It extends to compatibility and intellectual competence. The same is true for women’s attraction toward men.
MISCONCEPTION 2: If I walk up and talk to an attractive stranger in a public venue, there’ll be many pairs of eyes watching me. Some may think I am easy, lame, or worse, a loser.
TRUTH 2: First off, most people are too engrossed in their own lives to notice you. Those who do notice you are secretly vying for your success. More importantly, they envy and admire you, even though you may not succeed in your efforts to score a date.
Why? Because most of them do not have the courage to approach strangers in public.
MISCONCEPTION 3: The best way to start a conversation with a member of the opposite sex is to start with a good opening line.
TRUTH 3: Although a creative and well-delivered opener can work its charm, what’s important is that you are consistent with your values and intentions when starting a conversation with a