The Importance Of Being Vulnerable

Everything was going fine, at least you thought it was, until one day you come home to find her waiting by the hallway with all of her things packed and then she's gone. Staring at the door as it closes behind her, all you can feel is numb. Then soon it hits you all at once, yeah, breaking up sucks. It's the risk we take when falling in love with someone. Even if you can't prevent breaking up you can at least have power in how you handle things.
I can’t tell you that thing’s will be easy for you but I can tell you that with time it will eventually get better. It will be rough at first but not impossible. These tips, I hope will be your starting point to healing a broken heart.
Being Vulnerable

Society has certain expectations of men, if you're a fellow man then you get it. One of these expectation is that men stay cool, calm and collected. That showing any signs of vulnerability is weakness. We do everything in our power to cover the cracks trying hardest to not reveal what’s underneath. We get so good at it, we can even fool our best of friends. The charade continues even if that means pushing others away, ignoring the pain, or even self deception. We truly are our own worst enemies, it doesn’t have to be that way. It shouldn’t be that way, that it's okay to show some of the cracks beneath, it's our vulnerability that reminds us we are human, once we recognize our pain then then we know it's time to move on. …show more content…
Every man should have a network of close friends, people you could walk though hell any day, or in this case a bad break up. Hit up a few friends and just chill, you don’t need to pour your heart out but just having a friend there is enough. Even if you aren't comfortable with talking then just do activities such as just playing halo or anything to help get your mind off of things.

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