They have held onto this belief, even though they have chosen to live in America and raise their family in a country that is very individualistic. When Ashima first arrives, she constantly cries for the relatives she has left behind. According to Ashoke “On more than one occasion he has come home from the university to find her morose, in bed, rereading her parents’ letters. Early mornings, when he senses that she is quietly crying, he puts an arm around her but can think of nothing to say, feeling that it is his fault, for marrying her, for bringing her here” (33). She is an outsider in a strange land. American and Indian cultures are very different. One of those differences involves the public display of affection between a man and his wife. “Whatever love exists between them is an utterly private, uncelebrated thing.”
They have held onto this belief, even though they have chosen to live in America and raise their family in a country that is very individualistic. When Ashima first arrives, she constantly cries for the relatives she has left behind. According to Ashoke “On more than one occasion he has come home from the university to find her morose, in bed, rereading her parents’ letters. Early mornings, when he senses that she is quietly crying, he puts an arm around her but can think of nothing to say, feeling that it is his fault, for marrying her, for bringing her here” (33). She is an outsider in a strange land. American and Indian cultures are very different. One of those differences involves the public display of affection between a man and his wife. “Whatever love exists between them is an utterly private, uncelebrated thing.”