The Importance Of First Date Jitters

First Date Jitters Every girl fantasizes over their first date just like they plan their wedding; they both start at the age of four. Little girls dream of the perfect date as miniature golfing, go-karting, or watching a new movie. No matter what the date winds up to be, a girl needs to prepare mentally, physically, and emotionally for her first date. The first important factor a girl needs to take into consideration while in preparing for a first date is mentally composing herself. It is crucial to think positively, no matter how badly the date could turn out to be. So, first, she needs to banish all negative thoughts from her mind. This requires not thinking about the worst-case scenarios and not talking negatively about herself. For example, …show more content…
The first step to physically preparing for a first date is starting with a manicure. In my opinion, disgusting finger nails are such a turn off; a girl does not want that to be the reason there is not a second date, that is just plain embarrassing. The second factor to take into consideration is the girl’s outfit. It is essential to not overdress because the girl does not want to look like a try-hard. So, to avoid the wrong impression, the girl wants to wear something simple, but cute. For example, dark jeans and a fitting shirt that does not look frumpy. Another component to physically preparing for a first date is the girl’s hair and makeup. In my opinion, doing hair for a date is much easier than make up simply because running a flat-iron though it quickly will suffice. Make up, on the other hand, is to be taken seriously. Obviously the girl wants to look pretty, but she should not wear much more makeup than she usually wears; she does not want to pretend to be someone she is not. Another element that is vital is the use of deodorant; no girl wants to be remembered as the pit-stain freak. So, apply a good amount of deodorant, but not too much because she does not want it rubbing off onto her shirt, which will leave the notorious, white stain. Lastly, but surely not least, it is easier to carry a wristlet around than it is a big, bulky purse with old, crinkled receipts poking out. …show more content…
Before a first date, a girl always feels an assortment of emotions. The three most recognizable emotions usually are nervousness, excitement, and happiness. It is critical not to let one emotion overtake the others because it will upset the balance. If nervousness engulfs excitement and happiness, the girl may start talking really fast about random things. This may leave the boy with no opportunities to add to the conversation. If excitement trumps the other two, the girl may come off as too bubbly and most of the time an over-nice person is a turn off. If happiness is the dominant emotion, the girl may make the boy uncomfortable because she cannot show any other emotion other than happiness. Being over happy can give off the vibe the girl cannot empathize with the boy. He may think she is too much to handle if one emotion governs the